How do I reject a girl I'm just not into on the dancefloor?

Im_making_an_account · 2011-06-13T19:21:30+00:00

turn your face away and switch partners

go to clubs that are frequented by hotter women

rediphile · 2011-06-13T19:38:20+00:00

Ask them for drinks.

Abbottizer · 2011-06-13T18:56:25+00:00

can't tell if satire

2011-06-13T20:57:10+00:00

just walk away. easy

Edit and how the fuck do you let it get to the point that they try to make out with you. walk away before that happens, it seems like you're being a pussy or leading them on for your own ego when you're really not interested

FucksWithHiveMind · 2011-06-13T21:56:56+00:00

Smile, joke around and take a minute of your time to twirl them around. Then make an excuse and politely evac. Something like... It was lovely to dance with you but if you excuse me I need to get back to my friends. They will get the message.

This move alone will get you a ton of attraction from any chick that was watching. What do you think they see when you do this instead of looking annoyed/uncomfortable/freaked out and running away or confronting? In fact, if you are ever on a big wedding/ball/corporate party do make sure to dance with all the grannies, little girls, cugars etc regardless of your attraction.

Also, keep an eye on a natural when you spot one. All super popular naturals flirt with all types of females of all ages and they do so eloquently and respectfully.

heckz · 2011-06-14T01:46:38+00:00

"I have to go find my girlfriend"

"stop, I have a girlfriend and her friends are here"

ITotallyAgreeWith · 2011-06-13T19:18:51+00:00

"Sorry but not interested." ... What's the worst that can happen?

2011-06-13T21:27:02+00:00

You and me both, fella. In the last few weeks this has become a serious problem. Considering where I was two years ago, it feels kind of like the seduction version of r/firstworldproblems, though.

Any good lines or tips of how to be flirty and not a huge dick, but not lead people on, and how to run away if I need to?

Well, this is a problem. Don't be flirty. Do you flirt with your guy friends? Treat the girls you aren't attracted to like you would treat one of your male friends.

Not flirting with non-hot girls hasn't solved my problem, but it will certainly decrease it a bit.

AimlessArrow · 2011-06-14T05:44:08+00:00

"More your type"?

Are you listening to yourself?

How many "types" of girls grind up on random guys at a club?

durrrrrrrrrr · 2011-06-14T12:52:02+00:00

Why do you want a "good line" without any sexual intent? If you don't like a girl just walk away. Also...fuck a couple girls that aren't "your type" and you'll find that your type=having a pussy and not being egregiously obese.

2011-06-14T14:51:34+00:00

I tend to stare into the distance while she attempts to dance with me with a happy smile. So remove any hint of sexiness so that you don't offend the girl too much and more importantly show the other girls that you are a nice guy. If they are really ignorant then I will eventually just say I'm going to the toilet, kid you not I have found myself just standing in the bathroom sometimes.

EtovNowd · 2011-06-13T21:59:07+00:00

Just shake your head and walk away. Don't say anything. If you really want to be a dick, you can do what girls do when they're approached by guys they don't want, and give them a disgusted look on your face implying "really?!? You actually think you can get with me?!?!"

Title	How do I reject a girl I'm just not into on the dancefloor?
Author	focau
Upvotes	5
Comments	26
Date	June 13, 2011 6:31 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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