What's the best way to stay out of the friend zone without appearing too needy or clingy?

HisAwesomeness · 2011-06-25T20:42:37+00:00

Always make sure she knows you have a dick and that you won't hesitate to use it.

Boonana · 2011-06-25T23:28:00+00:00

Basically you need to escalate early, show her you are attracted to her and not someone who waits to get something that he can get elsewhere. You should ask questions like these in r/askseddit.

chumpta · 2011-06-25T23:46:15+00:00

not appearing needy or clingy.

kino.

the willingness to walk away. quite frankly, you have friends, and you don't need any more.

gentlemanofleisure · 2011-06-25T23:58:41+00:00

a girl tried to friend zone me the other day. i just laughed.

it's up to you how you see her. if you want her just keep hitting on her. if if she runs away then let it go and if she keeps coming back then keep escalating.

huxley2112 · 2011-06-26T00:14:52+00:00

It's actually easy, make your interest in her known. If she doesn't reciprocate, cease being friends with her.

scaevola · 2011-06-26T01:40:22+00:00

You might want to make sure you also taking steps to avoid the oneitis. It can sneak up on you. You usually don't know you have oneitis until its on its way out.

FriedBacon86 · 2011-06-26T02:58:05+00:00

Kino and physical touch make a HUGE different. In early interactions it has often been the difference between friendzone and sex. If you are already friendzoned then try to use kino to remove yourself.

razqel · 2011-06-26T05:38:11+00:00

Don't be her therapist, "girlfriend" with a penis, or orbiter. If you're with her, it's with the intention of hooking up, so act like it (i.e., sexually escalate).

puaqueso · 2011-06-26T16:12:50+00:00

kino kino and more kino - just make sure it's calibrated.

767 · 2011-06-27T00:18:43+00:00

Don't give a fuck about her.. Keep it like that for a few days... Don't call, nor send texts/chat and so on.. Show her that you have your time, and that you respect yourself. Yes, I know, we all had THAT girl we like so much being with, almost it's like it getting to be oneitis, but this is the only way. I had a similar situation a few weeks ago. Beilive me. Just keep it cool, chill out, relax, don't push it... and she'll be crawling back like a snake ma' :)

l3fth4nd · 2011-06-25T21:09:31+00:00

Don't be needy or clingy and escalate, learn about yellow light.

Title	What's the best way to stay out of the friend zone without appearing too needy or clingy?
Author	totallynotanalt8
Upvotes	10
Comments	20
Date	June 25, 2011 8:22 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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