Hey guys.

So I had my second date from OK Cupid last night. Gorgeous Hawaiian girl with lovely fake tits. I'll skip the boring details and stick to the useful stuff.

So we're supposed to meet at a bar at 7. I arrive on time and grab a table. I text her that I had arrived. She texts me back that she's gonna be about 10 minutes late.

Fast forward 10 minutes, and she texts me that she's "still on the way" but she had gotten off at the wrong train station.

I text her back: "good job lol" and "Take your time, my beer is keeping me company"

What I am doing here is setting a frame early on that I'm totally comfortable by myself in a bar. This is a quality of a confident, self-validated man.

She arrives, half an hour late. The first words out of my mouth: "Wow, you make a great first impression ;)"

I tease her, but keep a smile and hold eye contact like a boss. She needs to know that I'm just fucking with her.

I do all the normal comfort/DHV stuff. Everything is smooth sailing.

I make sure to keep a leading frame the whole night. And I am extremely polite to the waitstaff (tons of please and thank you's). It's very powerful to show your polite/nice side to her, without supplicating to her directly. This is where many guys drop the ball.

After 2 hours at the bar, I say "OK, let's go. I've got an idea." By keeping the leading frame, physically escalating becomes much easier.

We walk down the street, towards my office. I make sure to kino her a bit as we walk. We arrive, start sipping wine. I stand her up and go for the make-out.

Boom, I can tell she's submissive. "This is gonna be fun," I think to myself.

I toss her around like a ragdoll and tell her what to do. She loves every second of our marathon, taboo bang session.

After the whole episode, she says a couple things that I loved to hear:

"You just hit all my likes. I loved the way you took charge. Best OK Cupid date ever."

So the take home message is pretty simple. Stick to the basics. Know the characteristics of a modern alpha male and make a conscious effort to convey these. Kino/escalate appropriately and you're home free.

This girl's going right to the top of my harem.

Afterwards I met up with the Bay Area Seddit crew. ImKumarYo is gonna post a FR about that.