Good night last night. Not because I talked to some chicks and hit on them, but because I had a blast. It was a lot of fun, and me and my friend were in a talkative , awesome mood for the whole night.

I'll keep it short. My friend (I'll call him A) lives in an area where as soon as you're outside his building you have like 4 bars around the block. We hit the first one and it's dead, somewhat disappointed we head into the next place and run into some acquaintances (A's friends). They are the only ones there but we still shoot the shit and hang out with them for a few. Shortly after, we leave them and head to another bar. Not many people either, but A knows the manager and starts talking to him. I introduce myself and see a tall, cute blonde in a very colorful top with her three friends at the corner of the bar. At this point, i'm in a talkative mood, i'm having a good time and I feel great.

I usually go direct when opening sets but have trouble opening 3 sets. Someone mentioned to compliment the friend(s), but mention that the target stands out. I looked straight ahead and walked towards her very slowly.

Me: Hey guys, sorry to interrupt but I think your friend here is absolutely gorgeous.

They laugh, she says thanks.

Me: Don't get me wrong, you guys are adorable but I just have a thing for tall blondes with colorful tops.

Hahaha. We introduce ourselves.

Me: So you guys look like college students, do you go to Rutgers? (this whole area is a college area, a lot of people here go to that school)

Emily (target): Oh no! We are way past that!

Some more chit chat, I guess her major since we were on college talk (psychology - the 'chicks' major). I also spill some of my drink on her friends leg. - "oh shit! I'm sorry." I give her half a hug and say "but you'll survive wont you!"

Me: Well, I got to get back to my friends, but I'm totally gonna steal Emily for a few later tonight.

They laugh and say cool. 20 minutes later I go up to them again and I give my hand out to Emily. I tell her to come over here for a second. She laughs, looks at her friends and gives me her hand. So I pull her in as I lay back against the bar, I pull out my phone and say "alright Emily, give me your number."

Emily: Omg, so direct! haha. But how old are you?! (she's apparently a lot older then me since she found out I'm still in college)

Me: Doesn't matter, what's your number.

Emily: Hahaha, no but really how old are you?!

Me: smile Doesn't matter, give me your number.

Emily: lolol gives me her number

Me: Cool, I'm going to text you something dirty. Come here, give me a kiss.

Emily: Hahahaha

We hug and I leave. I immediately text her: "Something dirty. -Carlos"

No response. I text her again later in the night "Short interactions suck! Where you at?" No response again.

So that's about it. I had a few other interactions but nothing amazing. I even opened a few sets by saying I'm practicing my social skills and have to talk to the hottest girl tonight. Yeah, not a good opener but my goal of the night was just to approach and get a number which I managed. It's all good though, the night ended with us smoking a joint with a pro tennis player in the middle of the street. We had fun.

Anyway, do you guys think I should even bother with this girl? I was planning on calling her later today but I'm not sure. The interaction was short too so I think she'll be reluctant to respond to my texts but we'll see. I should send her a joke about the whole age thing and how I'm actually 75 but look very very young. What do you guys think?

UPDATE: Texted her today, "Hey Emily, guess what" - No repsonse, so I'm deleting the number. Lesson learned though, I have to build rapport after getting the number and show some investment so that they're more likely to respond.