This should be the #1 mandatory reading for AFCs: why you shouldn't chase women and be a "nice guy"

synapticimpact · 2011-08-24T19:43:50+00:00

tl;dr, women lose interest quickly. Escalate or move on.

I thought this was kind of misleading, lots of contextual examples to push his point. For this type of PUA this works but if you're not strictly a one night stand type baiting and entertaining interest plays a big role after the initial dates, sex is a decently large all-clear but for most people it isn't the end unless it was the goal.

turtle_thunder · 2011-08-25T05:26:30+00:00

this kind of article is way too overboard. what hes saying is way to extreme, its true that you shouldnt chase and everything he just went to far. i don't agree with the second half of it

Fullonraping · 2011-08-25T01:42:39+00:00

Once you become good with women, you stop chasing them because you are too busy with women, which makes you more attractive to women. Chicken-egg scenario.

Enthusizer · 2011-08-24T22:23:53+00:00

Chase women. Don't chase woman.

IncredibleLove · 2011-08-25T02:19:28+00:00

"f I didn't sleep with a girl in 2 dates, I didn't ever see her again usually by my own volition. Nowadays, it's the first date; if it doesn't happen then, it won't happen, even if she chases me. She probably doesn't get another shot."

I would never go for a guy like this, just saying. Attitudes like this disgust me.

2011-08-24T23:10:06+00:00

One of the best articles i've read!

lolwhatsausername · 2011-08-24T23:54:16+00:00

VERY eye opening, great article

Geaux · 2011-08-25T05:43:05+00:00

So, I let her know I must've had the wrong idea about us; that I was going to have to go hit the dating pool pretty hard and wouldn't have so much time for her anymore (she protested, of course); and then I faded her out of my life really fast. She started chasing hard, and less than a month after fading her out, she called me up desperate and needing to talk and wondering where I'd been one night and I talked to her for about 20 or 30 minutes, told her she was going to be fine in her job and in life, and then dropped it on her that I had a girlfriend and that I had to go because my girl was almost over... and she seemed honestly stunned. Guess guys didn't do that to her.

BEST FUCKING PARAGRAPH.

johnny878 · 2011-08-25T04:07:37+00:00

i get laid all the time for being a nice guy. Infact, my former stricly friendzoned girl and one itis, took em out for my bday, bought me a 50 dollar dinner, and fucked me all night.

if a girl puts you deep in the friendzone but still actively goes out of the way to talk to you, as long as you put her on the backburner and date other girls while continueing to be the nice friend guy.

she will eventually want to fuck you and be so nice back.

Title	This should be the #1 mandatory reading for AFCs: why you shouldn't chase women and be a "nice guy"
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	76
Comments	21
Date	August 24, 2011 5:13 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/jt1pc/this_should_be_the_1_mandatory_reading_for_afcs/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/this-should-be-the-1-mandatory-reading-for-afcs.1321683 https://theredarchive.com/post/1321683

Comments