I want to give the whole seduction thing a try.

BinaryShadow · 2011-11-05T17:01:05+00:00

Mo3 · 2011-11-05T18:36:09+00:00

Not to be contrarian, but recommend you don't take on anything new. Habits are very hard to change, and failure can make it even worse (i.e. dieters who lose some weight but then end up even fatter than before). I'd suggest you take ONE thing and do it for 30 days. If that works, add another.

ch-ch-ch-ch-changes · 2011-11-05T17:56:39+00:00

Isn't Neil Strauss' The Rules of The Game basically a 30 day challenge with a different assignment for each day? I haven't read it, but that might be good.

DiscreteOpinion · 2011-11-05T18:41:19+00:00

You could try adding a bit of seduction materials to your study list.

2011-11-05T19:24:45+00:00

Hey mo3, good luck on the 100 set challenge! If you stick with it I'm sure you'll be amazed by the results. I also agree with DisecreteOpinion, you can add little bits of seduction material to your study list, Mark Manson from practical pickup used to put out a free pdf called "Take Action today," that really feeds into what you're doing. Basically he says for AA the best, field proven, time proven, cure is gradual and repeated exposure, like starting with "hi," and then moving onto asking the time and then eventually doing full on approaches.

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-11-05T19:45:33+00:00

It's fine to start early, but don't game in school. And check out highseddit.

EtovNowd · 2011-11-06T00:17:07+00:00

If you suck at being social it's best to start with basics (assuming you're supper bad at being social):

Say "Good morning" to people you pass while running.

Practice smiling by smiling at everyone you meet at customer service jobs, and say 'thank you', 'thanks', etc...

If you have a problem maintaining eye-contact, practice on keeping eye contact with people driving towards you (obviously while you're on a side walk, or they're exiting a parking lot). This limits the 'amount' of time you actually have to spend in eye contact-mode, because they're driving towards you, but you still get the practice in.

Practice kino by touching everyone. Your mom, dad, bros, friends, dogs, cats, posters, t-shirts, booty, etc. you get the idea.

Mo3 · 2011-11-06T01:21:19+00:00

Aim to do a 100 blowout challenge.

Approach 100 sets and escalate until a blowout occurs. Take note of what you do and what the reactions are. ASSUME each set will end in a blowout, this will make you less outcome dependent.

puanerd · 2011-11-05T20:26:16+00:00

use your college savings to take a bootcamp with a famous PUA company

Title	I want to give the whole seduction thing a try.
Author	Mo3
Upvotes	9
Comments	18
Date	November 5, 2011 4:51 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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