No doubt this is going to happen, eventually. Who has been called out for looking at phone every time it rings, yet taking hours to reply to her texts?

sparklyteenvampire · 2011-11-23T06:33:28+00:00

"I don't always get around to texting people."
"Are you not getting enough of my attention?"
"Make your texts dirtier."
"Do I? I hadn't noticed."
"I'm on call at work. If they call me I'll have to take it."

All of these except the last one should be said with a smile, and in all of them you must maintain frame. What you say in this case doesn't matter much, it's in the delivery. Don't be rude, but don't act like you've done anything wrong or have anything to apologize for by not texting her faster. You don't owe her a prompt response, you can respond whenever you feel like it, and if she wants more attention from you then she better step up her pursuit.

That being said, don't check your phone in front of her. It's rude.

rmbarnes · 2011-11-23T12:31:48+00:00

"Don't be that girl"

marco161091 · 2011-11-23T01:40:38+00:00

It's a shit test.

Seduceher · 2011-11-23T05:47:53+00:00

Never look at your phone in front of a girl. It could be another girl sending you something sexy and you want to make sure to keep a barrier between them and the other girls, lest they find out about all your scandalous sex.

osufan765 · 2011-11-23T18:14:05+00:00

Generally, if someone calls, it's important. Text messages are long small talk conversations that you can handle at your leisure. People call for emergencies.

lingual_panda · 2011-11-23T06:32:44+00:00

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sedditaway · 2011-11-25T05:48:16+00:00

When you're with her, put your damn phone away. It's rude.

abstractpickupartist · 2011-11-24T18:52:40+00:00

Why do you look at your phone every time it rings?

I'd suggest focusing on what you are doing at the moment. Ignore the phone, when you are having fun.

I think always looking at the phone shows insecurity: "OMG, she might not call back, if I don't answer!" (yes, I used to do that, too).

The caller will wait, because you are awesome. Send the right message to both the caller, and the women you are with.

Title	No doubt this is going to happen, eventually. Who has been called out for looking at phone every time it rings, yet taking hours to reply to her texts?
Author	yesterdayagain
Upvotes	12
Comments	11
Date	November 23, 2011 12:50 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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