Can men and women be just friends? (X-Post)

Karaktor · 2011-12-11T17:50:36+00:00

Why do people insist on trying to push this one way or the other.

The real answer to whether men and women can be friends: Maybe, it depends.

rfu12 · 2011-12-11T11:51:02+00:00

I haven't been born to make friends with women.
I've been born.. TO LOVE WOMEN!

ISw3arItWasntM3 · 2011-12-11T19:23:37+00:00

Oh my god seriously? YES. Women and guys can just be friends. Just because they are hot is fine, doesn't mean I am going to fawn all over them. I have plenty of incredibly hot lady friends, many who I befriended while I was in a relationship. Girls who are hot are THE BEST WINGS ever, without even realizing it.

ISw3arItWasntM3 · 2011-12-11T12:16:17+00:00

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SpiderFan · 2011-12-12T03:11:06+00:00

wtf is this 'just be friends' shit even mean? This video seems to imply the following.

-That if there is some attraction going on between the two, and if it wasn't there, they would affect the quality of the friendship.

Probably only to those with alterer motives, and a lot of desperation. I would say for most people this isn't true. It's about the vibe and shared experience between the two. If one of my hot girl friends was a guy, I would still be friends with that person because that person is awesome. Just because that person is hot and/or datable doesn't mean it's going to affect the friendship aspect.

-That friendships have to be completely platonic, there can be no attraction.

Why is there such a strict definition of friendship? It reminds of people who think that the only sexual relationship that can exist is an exclusive one.

Dr_Colossus · 2011-12-11T15:14:21+00:00

It's possible, but it takes over 5 years I'd say for this to be a possibility . Woman can be so naive when it comes to this stuff and I don't know why.

Title	Can men and women be just friends? (X-Post)
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Upvotes	24
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Date	December 11, 2011 3:43 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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