Gentlemen. Body Language. Proceed

PLplotsOTS · 2011-12-15T05:43:47+00:00

If you intentionally mirror their body language, it demonstrates your interest, but it also removes one of your tools for gauging theirs.

I should add that mirroring applies to gestures and such, but not composure. You wouldn't slouch just because the person you're talking to is. A few more basics: chest out, shoulders back, abs tight, chin up. Not to the point that you look ridiculous, but they work wonders when incorporated naturally into your stance.

dzarmavitra · 2011-12-15T05:09:19+00:00

i don't really think mirroring body language is a particularly useful way to connect. it makes an important part of your game incomprehensible. if her body is screaming FUCK ME and yours isn't roaring back ALL RIGHT LET'S FUCKING DO THIS then you're doing it wrong.

SpiderFan · 2011-12-15T10:34:17+00:00

Mirroring is for comfort, not attraction

2011-12-15T08:58:28+00:00

Something I've been trying out lately with pretty good results...I'm somewhat tall, 6'1". I often used to bend my head down in order to hear girls talk, if they're short. It helped in a loud place, and I also figured it emphasized our height difference, which girls like.

I try not to ever do this now. It makes you look slouchy and also makes you seem too interested in her. And if you stay standing straight, the girl will lean into you if it's loud.

If she's coming to you, even in this small way, that can't be bad.

puaCurveBall · 2011-12-15T18:13:46+00:00

Big chest
Take up a lot of space
Relax your shoulders
Act like you own the place or are at home.
Stand up straight, keep neck back and chin up
Hands at sides, not on chest or in pockets
Don't lean in, make her come to you

queenw_hipstur · 2011-12-15T16:00:06+00:00

I talk a lot with my hands and sometimes look into space when I'm looking for a big word or phrase. Apparently I come across as calculated. Whatever works I guess! I also use my hands a lot, and will touch a girl almost immediately after meeting her.

hoyablue · 2011-12-16T05:53:18+00:00

Remember to stay as still as possible when talking to girls or in any situation. The person who moves the least is often the one who feels in control, this will help your frame and make you seem more confident. Other than that, I try to go for as confident body language as possible.
I also play a game that helps me develop a confident state. I call it the eye contact game. Whenever I make eye contact with a random person, I try to not break the contact first. This is a sign of submission and the more confident person will usually not break eye contact first. If you can hold eye contact with a girl and smile, they love this and will be shocked by your confidence. Every time you break eye contact first, you lose a point. Every time they do, plus 1. It is hard at first for people like me who aren't used to having such a confident state of mind.

edit: for adding the point system to the game

osufan765 · 2011-12-16T06:22:12+00:00

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ellloellle · 2011-12-16T09:10:12+00:00

My body language is designed to communicate an attitude: to the person I am speaking with, and to people watching.

frogma · 2011-12-15T03:58:27+00:00

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Title	Gentlemen. Body Language. Proceed
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Date	December 15, 2011 3:53 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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