Has anyone ever been intimidated by slightly older women who have their shit together?

puaCurveBall · 2011-12-16T01:15:44+00:00

What... if she asks me about my life?

Answer her!

You are the only one that feels intimidated or inadequate, she doesn't think or want you to feel that way.

Look, all you can do is put yourself out there, it is up to her to decide if you are what she wants, don't make that decision for her.

Maybe she wants someone inexperienced so that she can teach them, maybe she is tired and just wants to have some fun sex without thinking about it too much. You don't know, if she likes you, then she likes you.

Look at it this way: You could tell her you lived in a cult and never left your hometown until this year, that you never experienced TV or electricity or anything and entire life has just been manual labor and farming, and she could think that is the most interesting shit ever and be head over heels in love with you because of it.

You can't predict what she wants or is looking for.

ghostfacechillah · 2011-12-16T02:35:28+00:00

Dude I love going after older chicks, they are so much more laid back. They have their shit together, and are much less clingy then younger girls.

ferveo · 2011-12-16T15:49:59+00:00

Shit no, those should be your targets.

Mitogi · 2011-12-16T18:42:18+00:00

Just enjoy yourself, she is.

youeatmop · 2011-12-16T10:11:20+00:00

I think the flip-side to the advice you've gotten thus far is that if you're unhappy with the excitement level in your life, crank it up. Save up and travel. Backpack across Central Asia. Start playing music, start making art. Find something to be passionate about. Make your life cool. It takes time and energy, but it's worth the effort.

Seduceher · 2011-12-16T18:03:49+00:00

I've done all those things so I really don't know how it feels. But my advice to you is to go travel the world right now if you are intimidated by that stuff. You are the only one holding yourself back. I've only been to 26 countries and feel fine with my state of worldliness. You probably have all kinds of excuses like money and time and energy and you took an arrow to the knee, but those are cop-outs.

Title	Has anyone ever been intimidated by slightly older women who have their shit together?
Author	PBaaete
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	December 16, 2011 12:11 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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