College virgins

mad_disciple · 2012-01-09T18:56:31+00:00

Your goals are wrong. Leave them better than you find them. If you're unwilling to emotionally attach and they want emotional attachment then find others. If that takes time then take the time. There are plenty of girls out there and there'll be plenty that will be losing, if not lost, their virginities so be patient.

Lanza21 · 2012-01-10T06:01:33+00:00

Don't. A girl losing her virginity is a nightmare to deal with. If you don't want emotional attachment, don't chase girls with the single highest propensity for emotional attachment. I think that's kind of obvious.

Plus, they suck in bed.

trashposts · 2012-01-09T17:03:48+00:00

Mods where are you....

ShamwowTseDung · 2012-01-09T19:11:45+00:00

Just have them blow you and nut in their eye.

Is that getting old or something? How can that be?

CLARIFICATION: I'm fucking serious here. Any college-age girl that's still a virgin either gives mean head or hasn't ever kept a boyfriend. Virgins can be great because they've learned to give dome like champions to compensate for having a lock on their vagina.

rpcrazy · 2012-01-10T05:23:08+00:00

stay away from that ish broseph...seriously.

MidnightThunderboy · 2012-01-10T16:21:40+00:00

I would just stay away from virgins. The chances of you being a girls first and her not getting hurt are very slim. I find the vast majority of girls we're disappointed with their first time because they fucked some douchebag. Don't be that douchebag.

I find it hard to believe that there is a shortage of girls who have gotten laid and want to get laid again in any collage. Branch out, girls want sex just as much as you do.

I have a no virgin rule. But less specifically, I wouldn't sleep with a girl if I knew she was doing it with a LTR in mind and would cross her leads otherwise. It all comes back to "Leave them better than you find them." I guess.

frogma · 2012-01-09T17:52:00+00:00

Your only real option is to build up a shit-ton of comfort. That kinda means you have to say exactly what they wanna hear, and you have to do a lot of reassuring. Most virgins won't be virgins by choice, but they'll still be nervous about it. It's gonna be pretty situational, but generally you want to reiterate to them that sex isn't a big deal. Meanwhile, keep getting em horny. They're almost always gonna say "I don't usually do this," and then your best bet is to agree with that sentiment, say something cheesy/charming, and move past it. It won't always work, and a lot of it depends on your own level of confidence/experience. If you're less experienced, I'd say to skip the virgins altogether if you can- get more experience first.

Though like I (and the other guy) said, it's college, and the majority of virgins simply haven't had the chance to experience sex (but they want it). Keep that in mind.

Another thing you'll want to reiterate is "We won't do anything you don't want to do." That's true, and after saying it, you can go ahead and press forward with more innocent shit, then gradually escalate it. Even most virgins are open to fingering and shit like that, so do that. Then if they still legitimately don't want sex, get your nut off and leave it at that until next time. Also get with other girls (do that no matter what), and you'll have a better idea of how to move forward.

Edit- I also wanna let you know though, you'll find plenty of experienced girls who are single, and overall the virgins are a minority. You've just had shitty luck so far. It'd be helpful to know how you're meeting these girls.

iznou · 2012-01-10T05:05:57+00:00

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Title	College virgins
Author	trashposts
Upvotes	6
Comments	21
Date	January 9, 2012 4:41 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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