Couple of weeks ago I broke through and had my first one night stand. It was a bit of a fool's mate, and I broke my own rules about age (still solidly legal though). Worse, even though I thought I was being "safe" (I used a condom for PVI but did unprotected oral) I picked up at least 2 STDs from her, thankfully curable, though I'm still fighting them off. I'm worried I might've gotten a third, non-curable nuisance (Herpes), but hoping for the best so I can once again be 100% healthy.

The material we teach here is very powerful and does get results. Some of us may be unprepared for the risks (I was). So remember that even "safe sex" might not be not as safe as you think. And even if you know better, it's easy to succumb to temptation and put yourself at risk, late at night after a few beers, when everything comes together and it happens.

What do you guys do to keep yourselves safe? What will you do and not do and with whom?