Meaning, I don't see how a girl could actually think about wanting sex with me. I am not a virgin, and I still experience this. It's really causing major hangups in my pickup journey. The other night, I was talking to a girl and my friend was winging me. I was just talking, not really focusing on what was going on. I then left the set because my friend was picking us up and my wing was like "Dude....you're an idiot for leaving her. She wanted you".

I asked him to elaborate, and he just tells me "whatever you're doing, keep doing it. I felt like she was giving you all the attention and I was just getting the leftovers. I'm so mad at you for leaving (she had an uglier friend, still fuckable)." I literally had NO idea. I feel like when good looking girls hit on me I don't even notice it because I feel like they're just teasing or fucking with me. I never think its serious.

I used to be pretty fugly but I've grown to be a good-looking built guy with a deep voice. Maybe I'm just nto used to viewing myself in that light. I still see the socially anxious fat kid. Anyone else have experience with this? I guess the only cure is more practice right?