Question for Men: What aspects of women make you want to approach them?

Level_75_Zapdos · 2012-05-11T00:43:27+00:00

Face >>> ass > tits

2012-05-11T01:15:27+00:00

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TofuTofu · 2012-05-11T01:22:38+00:00

Besides for the obvious physical characteristics... Style. I am a sucker for girls with eyeliner, for example.

Secondary to all that... if she appears to be having a fun time.

2012-05-11T00:27:39+00:00

I've never really consciously thought about this. I'm just drawn to certain people and go from there. Overall physical presence is probably the biggest one, not just her natural good looks but the way she dresses and the way she carries herself. Occasionally I'll be interested in a shy-looking girl but usually I'm drawn to other outgoing people. I'm sure there's more subtle things that I haven't even realized I pay attention to or consider. Other stuff such as the company she's with, her perceived mood, and her behavior just help me calibrate my approach.

sax1210 · 2012-05-11T00:50:54+00:00

I'd say a girl who seems totally comfortable in her own skin is very attractive. Someone who doesn't have to project their insecurities on other people in order to feel accepted.

You don't have to look perfect. Be aware of your insecurities but instead of letting them hold you back, embrace them and work in your own time to improve them.

Overall, just don't care what anyone else thinks of you and guys will be attracted to you.

aharddayznight · 2012-05-11T01:11:22+00:00

it's subjective regardless of the answers you poll up here. there is only one constant within every guy before they approach a girl with the seddit intent, and that's if she's attractive. (all they have to work with at that point is looks because they've only just seen her)

again, that in itself is subjective as to what they consider attractive and many men have many different standards.

vellyr · 2012-05-11T01:50:58+00:00

Things that catch my eye

-Smiling

-Nice hair

-Meets people's eyes

-Muscle tone

DlmaoC · 2012-05-11T03:09:49+00:00

Honestly just the way her hair is and how she dresses. Also if she is fit/has a cute face.

2012-05-11T11:10:26+00:00

Style and face mostly, but not really a style in particular. I like girls whose style match their body and mind, and if it's fashionable. Then I check for overall view, not too fat, not too thin and then ass and tits, but that's quite the last of my concern, it's just a bonus.

Murmaider · 2012-05-11T20:06:26+00:00

For me its the way they present themselves. Cleanliness is next to Godliness.

iLikeE · 2012-05-11T22:37:10+00:00

Bar: type if drink

Club: type of shoes

During the day or night at any other location: eyes, then sneak a peak at the booty

2012-05-12T21:11:36+00:00

if she dresses in a way that pisses other girls off. doesnt necessarily mean slutty, just means if she has other girls there hating on her style, im interested

2012-05-11T12:33:36+00:00

Almost everything, but number one would have to be when she gives you a look that's just like "please talk to me"

Title	Question for Men: What aspects of women make you want to approach them?
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Date	May 10, 2012 11:42 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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