I would like to start with a brief background about myself: 22 years male currently living in Germany with very limited proficiency in the German language, and experience with the female gent, had a couple of unsuccessful one-ities in the past, and of course being a virgin for all these year until...last night.

This event happens in a festival, the first one that I go to without the company of any friends, I got to admit that it was quite uncomfortable at the beginning as I had to talk to people that came along to the festival as a group of friends. I opened a pretty decent number of sets, and of course crashed and burned at the end of most of them.

Now fast forward toward the key event that I would like to discuss with 7you guys. I was dancing on the dance floor until I notice this HB7 that just landed in front of me and started shaking her ass, my old self would have thought " Man look at that girl! she looks fine, I wonder if she has a boyfriend/I wonder how to get her attention/...fill the kind of brainstorming infinite loop an AFC would usually fall for...", I didn't, I was at that moment in a pure Fuck-whatever-may-happen Mode, and chosen the action card without even thinking, so there I walk kind of in front of her to have eye contact with her, once that was established I just screamed "Yeah!" and gave her a high-five, then smoothly started dancing with her. Now the fun part of my story starts at this point.

After the dance, I take her out of the dance floor with me, buy her and myself some beer, and then go to an isolated area to talk for a bit, she conducted her self in a fun way through most of the discussion, doing some kino here and there, playfully pulling her hair, and caress her cheeks, and tickles from time to time, at one point she drops her cell phone and she tries to secure it back in her bras(?), I quickly pick up the phone and said that I'll help her out with it, she let's me do it, of course slide those fingers against her nipple, she slaps my hand and give me that accusing look of hers, we carry on through a short conversation, she starts to hysterically laugh to something I said, I notice her cheeks getting red, then tell that she was blushing, I ask then if she was, she answers no and starts putting her hands on her face to hide those cheeks, i removed her hands, got closer to her face while saying that she actually was blushing, and there jumped for the kiss, and started making out...and here starts the part that hated the most, and I would really love some input.

Although I was very aroused when I was dancing with her, I couldn't feel anything when I was making out with her, on her part on the other hand she seemed to be enjoying it. That was my first kiss ever gentlemen, and I couldn't enjoy it at all, i was like "what the hell is this shit? How Am I supposed to enjoy this?" so the first session went by pretty damn quick, I stop making out, she looks at me with the eyes wide open for a brief moment, and she says "wow", I was thinking to see if it was a "wow, this was good!" or "wow, you really don't know what you are doing", I take small distance from her for a bit, talk to her briefly as she said that it was started to get a bit cold, I tell her to get closer, I jump in again to make out, same old story except this time she jumps on me, start even moaning breathing heavily.

Done making out, and now in my tent, we make out for a small moment, as I was excited about getting laid I start taking off her clothes and then proceed to penetrate her, this is when the unexpected happens, my boner died off while I was inside of her! How the fuck does this shit happen? that was the most awkward thing ever experienced so far in my short life, how in the hell I would loose a boner when I finally get to finally fuck a female I got to pick up! I mean please guys I need to know how to fix the issue, and not have to go through the same awkward situation when I get to pick up the next female, this is supposed to be my reward dammit!

tl;dr: I get to successfully pick up a girl, gets the chance to fuck her and immediately looses the damn boner. Help and input is appreciated.