Can we have a real ltr?

CrimsonCapsule · 2014-03-31T14:17:36+00:00

Fucked if I know how all of this LTR stuff works.

Last Thursday she texted that traffic was bad, so I told her she should take her broomstick next time. RP, right? High five!

I had the day off, she worked. I got some of my shit done, then made a casserole from leftovers — like a woman. Motherfucker had rosemary, even. BP.

Then I confidently announced that we were getting beers at the bar down the street. She pays, because I got dinner. Girls buying drinks! RP!

Then we get back and watch cartoons and hold hands under a blanket (BP) and then fuck all over the sofa (nice solid RP kind).

That's new. I mean, weekday sex had gotten rarer than hen's teeth. Now it's back. Is it the squats? The fish oil? The teeth whitener?

Pretty sure it's not the rosemary.

Enphuego · 2014-03-31T18:56:00+00:00

I'm married and it's not hurting my life. If I want to go to the bar and have a beer, I do it. If I want to go camping or fishing, I go do those things. My wife can tag along if she likes (unless I'm taking a break from her) and it's no big deal.

It's all the benefits of being single (doing what you want) with all the benefits of being married (dinner on the table when I get home, constant sex). The expense is pretty minimal, I catch a tax break for being married, she contributes a little bit to household expenses and if she wants a lot of spending money, she can go out and get a job.

There's no rule that says you've got to give up your balls when you get into a LTR, just keep doing what you want to do and your girlfriend will learn to live with it. Just don't expect her to be something she isn't.

Ahrius · 2014-03-31T13:54:17+00:00

The unfortunate reality is that an LTR will only work with a woman who is essentially... the unicorn.

Think about it this way. Some RPers are here because this is who they are and they found a place to hang with like minded people. The rest of us (myself included) are reformed Betas who took back our testicles and have become extremely cynical of Disney-esque endings.

But it's still there.

Buried, deep within us. All of us, actually. Even the most masterful of plate spinners. Deep down, every guy here wants to find that one Dream Girl, the one who will not only take our breath away by what she does in bed, but also by what she does at home.

Whether it's something as simple as attending to us when we get home from a long as day at work: Put a beer in the fridge and then pour it as soon as you hear us pull up, taking our jacket and bag to our work station just because you're headed in that direction anyways.

Or perhaps, she has dinner on the table waiting, or listens to you when you rant about shit at work. Or when she asks how to play a particular video game, or when she asks you to explain what's going on in a show so she can catch up faster.

Basically, in the cynical perspective of today - if she stops being wrapped up in her own ass and actually gives a damn about her man instead of seeing him as a bank/meat stick/accessory... then a long term relationship is totally possible.

The problem is that you won't find it in an American woman. Lesbians and feminism has destroyed them. Their entitlement extends to unreasonable levels: they're entitled to half your stuff because twice a month they spread their legs for you.

What you might want to do is go look at European woman. Westerners are more modernized but they still retain a lot of traditional values. Eastern European women (former Soviet nations, excluding Russia) have dimes that are more than willing to go full on Steppford wife it means you rescuing them from the shit whole they call home. The trick is to find them from a village, not the "big city" that has electricity. Granted, it's not that fairy tale-esque, but it's as damn close to it as I've seen.

2014-03-31T15:37:28+00:00

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trying2testhumanity · 2014-03-31T18:40:46+00:00

TRP isn't about banging a lot of women, it's about increasing your SMV and to have your choice of the litter: a high quality girl all your own.

cascadecombo · 2014-04-01T05:52:49+00:00

The answer will be no if you never look. Spend your time looking and when you finally meet one make sure there's no crazy.

Beardsman2 · 2014-04-01T10:03:44+00:00

Of course its possible, and knowing about the nature of women will give you the best chance of success. 50% of marriage end in divorce, that means that 50% don't. Of these 50% that don't, 90% are probably fucking awful, and 10% are actually successful. So I think about 5% of total marriages are actually good. With good mate selection and red pill knowledge I think we can give ourselves every chance to be part of that 5%. That's what I want to do.

Lady_Motido · 2014-03-31T13:27:14+00:00

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HowDoDis · 2014-04-01T00:16:47+00:00

"Is it even possible to be meet a woman to have a LTR with that isn't going to ruin my life at some point?" NOPE

BluepillProfessor · 2014-04-03T01:57:07+00:00

I'm wondering if it's even possible to find meaningful companionship with a female or if I'm just relegated to meaningless sex with multiple plates until I get bored of even doing that.>

Yes it is possible. Damn hard, but possible.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-04-01T18:46:31+00:00

LTR works just fine- so long as you hold your confident/cocky/Alpha/always escalating frame.

Get depressed, lose the tingles. Lose your job, lose the tingles. Dad dies and you cry in front of her, lose the tingles. See how that works?

Title	Can we have a real ltr?
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Date	March 31, 2014 1:17 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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