I was recently talking to some friends of a friend about being honest with girls. They are typical AFCs, and had seen me K-close and #-close a number of girls in the bar, including a few they had gotten no where with, and started bombarding me with questions.

One theme that was strong was honesty, and being up front. It turns out they are willing to tell a girl they are going to date them just to get a kiss, and will continue lying if they take them home. They both refused to believe me when I told them that not only have I never done that, but I will explicitly tell them this is a hookup, and nothing more and am willing to walk away if they girl has an issue with that.

Is this something anyone else has gotten from AFCs they know?

I find being completely honest, and having an abundance of girls (or having the mentality) works wonders...

Only the other night, I was out with a girl friend and a load of her work friends and we ended up in a gay bar (if anyone has read one of my FR, you will know I like to snog every straight female I can get a gay bar). One of them was really into me, and even replied "Yes, I am" when I accused her of trying to get me drunk after the 3rd shot she had gotten me. I took her out side and k-closed her, and on entering the bar, I say to her "I'm a bit of a wild one in gay bars, a few drinks and I'm anyone's, so if you want some more you will keep hold of me."

I don't think she completely believed be, because I got a very angry slap on the back from my friend while I was k-closing 2 "lesbians" on the dance floor, and was told her friend was not too happy about it! Feeling like a complete dick, I grab her friend and take her outside. I explain to her that I really wasn't joking, and I love kisses and she has to keep a hold of me if she wants more. I also explain I'm not looking for anything more than hookups, and if she had thought so, I was sorry I had given her the impression it was anything else.

She calmed down fairly quickly, and even apologised for over reacting, and asked if she could take me home. I said yes, and she has now joined my list of FWBs :)