DAE who has mastered PUA feel like "empty" inside?

howimetyourmeme · 2012-08-13T00:44:30+00:00

Maybe you should try finding a girl you're genuinely interested in as a person, rather than as a conquest. Sex is great, but it's empty without an emotional component.

Xstream2 · 2012-08-13T03:39:24+00:00

define "mastered"

stoppanicmode · 2012-08-13T05:46:54+00:00

maybe youre gay bro. bang a dude and see how u feel

themoor · 2012-08-13T01:31:40+00:00

You had problems before you got into PUA/seduction, etc. You clearly haven't solved those, even if you have solved the problem of meeting and having sex with women.

For some guys, sex is the main goal.

For others, it's dating several women until the "right" one shows up.

For still others it's luring in "Ms Right."

You seem conflicted in your goals. PUA can be very machiavellian and it seems you've learned the techniques that lead to sex, but haven't gotten a clear handle on what you really want.

If you REALLY want at LTR but only execute those techniques to get you a lay, then of course you will feel empty. It all becomes simply a method.

GOOD NEWS: You sound like you know how to meet them and fuck them. Now your job is to be more choosy and look for want you want in a women. Screen more, fuck less (at least for a while). Take what you've learned and use it to the advantage of the goals you want.

If you don't know what you want, step back from pick up and do some reflection. Return knowing you have skills and use them for what you want them to do.

JonnyAtlas · 2012-08-13T03:11:47+00:00

The problem isn't PUA. The problem is that you think something outside of yourself can bring you joy.

It's common to come to PUA because you feel you are missing out or that getting laid a ton will somehow complete you. Truth is, you're not and it won't. You're learning that now.

IMO, what can really be taken away from PUA is self improvement. You've learned how to conquer your anxiety. You are health physically and you are working hard and going far because of it. Good for you.

Now you need to take the time and effort to figure out who you are. Noting in this world can fill that emptiness. You will have to become happy in and of yourself. What I mean by that is, you need to be at peace with who you are, so that even if you lose your job and your place and never get laid again, you will still be content.

It's not easy, but it is worth it.

AfterC · 2012-08-13T04:37:46+00:00

Fulfillment has to come from within. You won't find it in another person or hundreds of others.

iznou · 2012-08-13T07:54:14+00:00

Which PUA materials did you utilize to get good at pickup?

Title	DAE who has mastered PUA feel like "empty" inside?
Author	stoppanicmode
Upvotes	3
Comments	38
Date	August 13, 2012 12:37 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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