I wonder, what would be the alpha way to deal with a girl who takes her time to respond? Assuming I have free time at the moment, on the one hand if I'd answer quickly after she waited for 2 hours to text me it will seem like I'm more dependent on her then she's on me, which is bad. On the other hand girls would realize very quickly that I'm waiting before texting her when she's waiting before texting me as well, and then it turns out like I lost my frame and got into her dumb waiting-before-texting game. How do you deal with this stuff?