What do I do after the opener?

ikkake · 2012-10-18T20:43:26+00:00

You transition into normal conversation, then you use the conversation to attract her to you, then you qualify her to see is she worth your time, after which you move into comfort where you can start talking more about yourselves, and lastly you move into seduction where you pretty much do everything to get intimate with her. Obviously a lot of this overlaps, sometimes changes places, it depends on your opener, situation and context you meet her, both of your personalities, and your skills. Easy!

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edit:

Also, how should I talk about my job even if my job is boring?

You don't. You are a secret agent from now on. One of the first things I tried is to make an absurd clue about my job (yet true if given the context) and make her guess. Tried it few times and it seemed to be working, but i wouldn't call it field approved. Basically I work in a school as a science technician and I tell her: If I told you straight up it would be a bit bland, so try guessing. here is a clue: I sometimes get to set some children on fire, or I make stuff that makes flames different colours, or I'm doing explosions. Then I watch her reaction, the first one is pretty much utter shock on their faces, so you have to reveal it fast, but if they got similiar sense of humour to mine they will laugh (it's a form of qualification as well) and the other clues are more neutral. Boring job yet you can make it entertaining, and you don't make shit up.

Motherfudge · 2012-10-18T20:49:46+00:00

Just take the conversation to her, show her you're interested in her more than her. I and many people here like to ask "Obviously you're pretty but tell me one interesting thing about you?" and she'll respond with "Oh, I don't know that's a good question."

She'll tell you something cool about her and you continue.

Once the whole thing escalates and she is kind of a dull person and I have no absolute interest or she can't come up with anything interesting I'll just make a slight joke and say something like "Well do you want to be my tool guide and potential lover then?"

Most of the time they'll laugh and be like "That is also another good question". But this is what works for me. You see you could have all the openers but if it feels like you're forcing it many girls can pick up on this. Just do what works for you

Title	What do I do after the opener?
Author	merelyLurking
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	October 18, 2012 7:50 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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