Physicality guide for newbies? How do you touch girls?

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-11-29T02:58:52+00:00

Go to YouTube and watch How To Kino. Yes, watch all ten parts. It's excellent for teaching the basics. You can see his live demonstrations and he makes it look very natural and easy to emulate.

schwedenbase · 2012-11-29T15:20:10+00:00

When you get done taking a shot together slap her on the ass and say NICE PLAY BABY LETS HIT THE SHOWERS

it's so ambiguous

c00kiecutter · 2012-11-29T02:28:43+00:00

Check out the Vin DiCarlo Kino Escalation Ladder (e)book.

MyThrowawaySeddit · 2012-11-29T08:23:37+00:00

Start with people you're comfortable with, like your guy friends. When they say something funny, pat them lightly on the shoulder, like a movie-Dad patting his son on the shoulder after he hits a home run. Now find some girls you're comfortable with and do the same. Magic!

When you want to show someone you're engaged in the conversation, you can touch the top of their arm if it isn't very far away. Your arm would have to be able to reach theirs without you moving your shoulders in space.

When you are walking side by side with a girl, walk closer. Accidentally bump into eachother just a little. Later, brush her hand with yours. Later, grab her hand and point at something, then let go.

If you can do all these things, which are pretty entry-level-human-behavior, you just keep doing it and doing it until it doesn't feel weird anymore. That's why we all say "just touch her, bro".

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puaCurveBall · 2012-11-29T14:56:38+00:00

This is a post I wrote on needing a "reason"

It might help to get into right mindset.

bigred16 · 2012-11-29T18:03:07+00:00

I usually just start with a tap to the shoulder. Than while talking to her, if I like what they're saying I will open palm pat her, and if shes comfortable I will just leave my hand there. My favorite thing about attracting women is that face they get when they go from "who is this?" to "This is amazing, I want to spit my life out to you!"

salem2474 · 2012-11-30T01:59:14+00:00

I was terrible at touch, too. I learned with very small steps.

First, I practiced by touching girls on the shoulder and asking the time. Very positive responses. I didn't approach beyond that, just wanted to get comfortable with touching.

When on dates, I tried a version of the Vin Dicarlo escalation ladder.

Start absurdly small. Find a reason to high five her. Playfully shove her when teasing. Touch her arm, or shoulder.

Later, if she responds well, increase contact. Play with her rings. leave your hand on her arm.

If this goes well, you'll develop a feel for it, and can progress to touching legs, hair, etc.

edit: Also, try it whenever you get a chance. Even if you're not gaming a girl, give her a high five, touch her shoulder, etc. This is to get you comfortable with touching and to make it a normal thing to do.

2012-11-29T13:49:26+00:00

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AngraMainyuu · 2012-11-29T15:35:30+00:00

Never touch girls. I talked to a girl once, she told me that physical contact is the same thing as a sexual assault. Now I've learned to live happily in my basement alone with my porn. :P

2012-11-30T02:41:30+00:00

Just act completely casual about it, dont keep your hand long enough for her to look at it questioningly but dont dart your hand back like you are scared

Title	Physicality guide for newbies? How do you touch girls?
Author	niggaX
Upvotes	35
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Date	November 29, 2012 2:22 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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