Lets talk about cultural differences when picking up girls.

sigma914 · 2012-12-11T17:40:45+00:00

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aProducer · 2012-12-11T12:00:56+00:00

I can start. Our "dating" culture is much more serious here than in US. If you actually ask a girl out it is not that big of a deal, but if you go to a second date or third, f-close and fade in to the night, it is a big deal! Or if you tell her after that you are not interested, same deal - bad time. Or if you ask a girl out, she says yes, and your female friends or their friends hears you have been on a date with someone (even if they don't know her), you are almost having a "in a relationship" status on your forehead. If you take 2 girls on a date, one on friday, one on saturday, and they find out or even hear a rumor about that, you are gonna have a bad time.

Golden rule for rookie: If you wanna play... One game at a time.

Golden rule for a more experienced: Less you talk, more you get.

Also, text game... I asked my PUA-friend about text gaming once (actually heard about it first time in here): My friend answered: "Text game? Wtf is text game? ... Take her to a date, because you can't fuck her over the phone."

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PUAIT · 2012-12-11T21:11:58+00:00

Tips for Switzerland? Going there for summer 2014- Fribourg if that means anything to anyone.

tallstick7 · 2012-12-12T05:41:06+00:00

I'm traveling to mexico this break. Any tips for latina women?

Sedditfanthrowaway · 2012-12-13T18:10:00+00:00

English, white guy here.

I spent some time in Istanbul, Turkey, which is a majority Muslim country. Ran some of my regular material over there with mixed results (yeah, what's changed?!). Seems dependant primarily on the religious inclinations of the girl, devout Muslims will not be tempted and nor should they.

Day game: pot luck. Met student on the streets, instant date, ended up going for dinner but revealed whe was looking for a husband.

Night game: girls in bars you would presume aren't so religiously inclined but proceed with caution!

Met some girls who were turkish but atheist as well. There is still an inherent resistance to displaying public affection or allowing themselves to be seen as being 'seduced'. In a pretty relaxed bar with one girl who I knew was interested, I was denied a kiss and had to implement a whole lot of push/pull to get just a peck on the lips. An hour later we were in her bed, perhaps revealing the initial resistance very quickly breaks down.

Another observation is the general hostility from Turkish men towards white a guy with a Turkish girl, and even worse with a group of white guys in bars chatting to local girls.

My advice; be subtle with your approach and sensitive to cultural etiquette. Err on the side of caution (something that doesnt come naturally to me!).

kingcal · 2012-12-12T04:09:31+00:00

I'm living in Korea. The biggest difference is that day game is nearly impossible. Even though I speak Korean well, there's always the language barrier to hurdle over. Besides, the culture here is just totally against strangers speaking to each other on the street, in a coffee shop, etc... The only time it's ever really possible is if they approach you and say something in English. Still, night game at bars is much the same. Especially if you're in a "foreign" bar. Korean girls there want to meet foreign guys, and it's easy to run the same game on them.

barsoap · 2012-12-11T21:15:13+00:00

German here. I heard y'all think our gals are scary, and probably that all the guys are utterly uninterested. That's utterly warranted, but only because you don't know what the heck is going on.

"What's going on?" you're going to ask, and the answer is: Nothing. Absolutely, positively and negatively, nothing. Except a strange tendency of guys letting themselves be hunted. But that's only a, probably temporary, coincidence, not a norm, and you should just, generally, ignore it as it's irrelevant on the grand scale of things.

There is not a single dating rule except "be yourself".

You're on your fucking own. If in doubt, become friends. Can't hurt, in any case. If it happens, it happens, if it doesn't, it doesn't, and when you think you can't stand it any more and have to come forward and lay down your whole self and love before the other and prove it, chances are that other already knows how much you're into them.

Never be afraid to speak true about yourself, avoid theatrics like the plague. If you have a question, ask. If you think you should tell something honest about yourself, do it. If you think you should hide it, be prepared for it to hit you in the back.

It's that easy :)

budguy68 · 2012-12-11T18:03:28+00:00

I've learn that European/English women don't like to shack hands, much less hug when you first meet them.

Indian women definitely don't like to hug when you first meet them. Plus their marriage is a lot of times arranged so if their family sees you with her she might get into trouble.

My white friend has told me that shes been told by middle eastern/ indian women that they aren't allowed to date outside their race or date white dudes...

Asian girls are shyer than most. Not a good idea to give them too much direct attention or show too much interest.

White hot American chicks can be the most liberal and will get offended if you ask them if they like cooking or some stupid shit that can be taken the wrong way. They have the highest egos too.

Title	Lets talk about cultural differences when picking up girls.
Author	aProducer
Upvotes	17
Comments	31
Date	December 11, 2012 11:50 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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