The text after 10 minutes after waiting for a girl: "I am sorry, but something got in the way and I couldn't come". How to respond?

FutureFlyDoc · 2013-01-03T20:02:41+00:00

Don't let her think this ruined your night. Give a regular "No biggie" or "Shit happens"

BUT she is now on parole. This may be her saying she isn't interested. So if she agrees to meet again, and flakes again, move on

epheterson · 2013-01-03T20:40:35+00:00

Didn't we learn about the Brad Pitt Rule?

It's okay if she can't make your plan, but if she really wanted you (if you were Brad Pitt), she'd have suggested another time.

In this instance, she did not. She also didn't tell you before hand that she wasn't showing.

As much as it sucks, forget about her and move on. Lingering on this girl doesn't sound fruitful to me. You can try to reschedule, but don't be sad if it doesn't work out.

specialpatrol · 2013-01-03T20:04:08+00:00

10 mins after you were supposed to actually meet? That's quite bad form. I'd probably not even answer personally.

shouldifuckher · 2013-01-03T19:48:15+00:00

I ain't got no worries.

thewhere · 2013-01-03T20:40:19+00:00

don't

2013-01-04T00:40:35+00:00

Listen to these other people. Don't initiate contact AGAIN and let her come to you. I don't care how badly you want to fuck this girl. IF YOU TEXT HER AGAIN you've failed us all.

You did react well. It's cool shit happens. Oh well, game other girls and she'll come back eventually. Don't get worked up.

2013-01-03T19:29:48+00:00

"It's cool, shit happens" "No worries"

etc.

2013-01-03T20:19:10+00:00

I'm not even sure I would respond. Not for an explanation AFTER standing you up. If she had bothered to respect you I would do the "another time" thing but now it's time for her chase you or be forgotten. Either way you'll know her position soon.

Stereo_Red · 2013-01-03T20:32:41+00:00

"No prob, shit happens. If you wanna hang out next week though give me a shout"

If she tries to reschedule cool, if not then whatever

puaCurveBall · 2013-01-03T21:01:03+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many sidebar guides.

Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2013-01-03T21:15:25+00:00

She bailed out on you with no explanation 10 minutes after the date was supposed to happen, and you're asking us how to respond with the hope of still making her like you? Why the hell would you want to keep dating a girl who treats you like shit?

The "abundance mentality" we always talk about here is more than just an act to fool girls into liking you. It's a different way of thinking about the subject of dating. It's the realization that you have value and girls should be competing for you as the prize. It's the idea that you don't have to put up with shit like this from girls because you're better than that. When you start treating yourself with respect, girls will too.

amiahipster · 2013-01-04T18:18:09+00:00

You don't.

You want to be holding the power. If you text her 'no biggie', yes it's outcome-dependent but she won't respond. Who would to that text?

Ignore her. Wait a week or two and text her to meetup.

User_0 · 2013-01-03T19:56:30+00:00

"Man, that sucks. We'll try another time."

Give her another shot if you think it's legit and see what happens. If she blows you off, then move on.

HumbertHumbertHumber · 2013-01-03T20:25:40+00:00

'Hope everything is ok'

..but I wouldnt initiate contact after that.

Title	The text after 10 minutes after waiting for a girl: "I am sorry, but something got in the way and I couldn't come". How to respond?
Author	amiahipster
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	January 3, 2013 7:26 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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