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[–]Scorpio- 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Importance of text game? There is no importance of text game. Text game is when you were back in grade 8 with your "Unlimited text bundle".
Call this girl up and set something up. You need to realize though when a girl is not interested. If she isn't interested pull the chute. Don't get tied up on one girl (search in reddit for some oneitis threads).
My suggestion - Give her a call, set something out, if she flakes it's time to move on.
[–]BeatBoxing_Abe 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
There is no importance of text game This. Texting is for setting up dates and getting to know her (if thats what you want to do) after you have fucked.
Get a new girl. Chasing like this is depressing, I say this from personal experience. It wears you out and feels weird and off. She should be chasing you.
[–]this-is-a-new-start[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I used texts to set up dates with her but recently starting chatting with her over the phone. This is where she's not responding very well - and this is what's killing me. We're alright face to face.
I'll let her initiate for next coming 3 days and ask her out a last time if I haven't heard anything from her by then.
[–]Zaiton 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And what will you be doing during these three days to prove that you're not going to hang yourself up over one girl?
[–]this-is-a-new-start[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know. Perhaps I'll let myself. I haven't felt this strong for a girl so I don't want to interfer with my feelings, because she will most likely see me if I ask her out. But it will be the last time I initiate.
[–]puntingbaxter 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How dare you!
You know there is no way in hell he is ready for the right advice!
Let him feel the pain, then and only then will he know.
[–]this-is-a-new-start[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This will probably be the right way i'll deal with it - she haven't flaked on me once and it seems like she's interested, so she will probably want to see me again. It's just when we're talking not face to face I'm doubting her interest.
[–]TheCuriousDude 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously. I have never seen--in real life, movies, or otherwise--a woman be swept off her feet by some incredibly seductive text. Women only swoon from texts when they're already incredibly attracted to a man.
[–]nycprowl 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to lay off a bit. Set a date up, and that's it. No communicating until date, or keep it light. Stop trying to be part of her daily routine without physical escalation. That's exactly how you friend zone the fuck out of yourself.
Guess so, we've have been physically, everything except hands/sex. And it's bout damn time, I'll just give her a couple of days and then ask her to come over to watch a movie. She doesn't have to be a genius to understand what that means. If she flakes she flakes.
[–]legoeater 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah Scorpio- hit the nail on the head. The importance of text game? Use text to set up stuff (although calling is better) and nothing more. The thing is that you cant really build much attraction over text or facebook. Without having physical interaction you can't really do much (unless youve built a really strong base of attraction in person already and/or have fclosed.
Sounds to me like you've been friend zoned by this girl who doesn't seem to be too interested. If its been a while chasing this girl I suggest then move on to someone else. You can always try getting out of the friend zone, but imo its actually easier to just go out and meet a new girl.
[–]this-is-a-new-start[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the reply. I gave you all very little information about our history so it's hard for you to make any conclusions, but it doesn't make your reply any less imortant, you got me thinking.
I guess my point of this thread was to just point out the power of being chased. Not really the importance of text game, my bad.
I've used text to set up the dates, and she haven't flaked once but I recently started using texts to chat with her and this is where she haven't responded very well.
Doubt I'm getting friend zoned, perhaps she's just letting me go :( I'll leave her for a couple of days and see if she flakes, i'll ask her out a last time at the end of the week.
[–]InfiniteBlink 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How far have you gotten with her? If you haven't kissed her by now you are dangerously close, if not already, in the friendzone. Sorry man, you've got to escalate and build attraction. If she's not chasing you, she doesn't think about you often and no matter how much more time you put in, it's a losing battle. Read the stuff on here.
That's not the case. Atleast when we've been slighly drunk. I just haven't got to unzip her pants yet, I was the one who said no for various reasons. However, my kino is very bad on a bright day, so I guess I have to man up if I see her again.
[–]Assistantacratophorus[M] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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