I'm going to burn everything to the ground!

dioxholster · 2013-06-02T13:15:25+00:00

I called the police

longlive4chan · 2013-06-02T13:35:24+00:00

I admire the dedication and the inspiration to go 1000%. It's awesome to be fired up. But when you go out, dont go with the mindset of "I HAVE to get a girl or my night's ruined" you dont want to feel desperate. Go out to have FUN man!

More power to ya, and go get 'em!

Teh_Nigerian · 2013-06-02T14:17:39+00:00

Attitude fucking matters. When you go out with the purpose of interacting with women and getting laid, chances are you will fail and will be frustrated and upset because of it. However, if you go out with the purpose of having fun and being social, you will be much more relaxed and attractive to women.

I have learned and re-learned this multiple times.

About 460 days ago you made the post above... You have been at this a VERY long time and haven't necessarily made the progress that you should have made at this point. Look yourself in the mirror and ask, "Have I really applied myself to this? Have I really made the decision to get better? Am I afraid to get better with women?" This last one is the really hard question to ask yourself.

The fact that you still have crippling approach anxiety is what is truly concerning. You have been at this a year and a half... This should have been squelched or greatly limited a LONG time ago. Use this week to return to the basics. I would work on installing a strong inner game mindset. Check out The Book of Pook and No More Mr. Nice Guy. Also do some hard core google searches on approach anxiety! Start here as it is your sticking point. Read a few different strategies to overcome the. Get out of the house and open every single person. Hot or not, etc.

Last thing. Go through every one of your comments over the past two years. Looks like you've been doing a lot of talk, but not a lot of walk, and then you lost sight of your goal. Honestly, you have to leave your ego at the door, and build yourself up from scratch. You say you want to do well in work and your internship... Well this will help you more than just about anything else will (except showing up). Apply yourself!

TheoColt · 2013-06-02T07:29:45+00:00

Keep on my man. Vulnerability is key.

martinx3x · 2013-06-02T15:31:26+00:00

Careful, you seem very outcome dependent.

Chroms · 2013-06-02T12:32:15+00:00

dont force it man. have fun and relaxe

SallyStruthersThong · 2013-06-02T15:06:23+00:00

Not every night goes well. For every 3 steps forward there is likely to be one or two steps back. Keep on keepin on.

Jake_STi-RA · 2013-06-02T22:52:38+00:00

Your head is in the right place but you're too worried about the outcome by putting all this pressure on yourself. If you do this, I have found you become even more nervous because everything is on the line. Don't put pressure on yourself that you have to do this and that by xx:30 pm or else you die.

Edit: Essentially, the inner game lesson here is to live the moment. If you have a blast and show all who you are, that's the most you can really offer.

n1nj4_v5_p1r4t3 · 2013-06-02T14:47:45+00:00

this is going to be a good week!

wild_cat_attack · 2013-06-02T16:33:24+00:00

Can someone explain the no porn/fap thing to me?

SpaceToaster · 2013-06-03T05:52:50+00:00

... Either I will fuck a girl next Saturday, or go home sobbing from the probable savagery of the blow outs

I was feeling like that in the weeks after my last longer exclusive relationship ended. Was super eager to get back into the game and in 100% "gotta get laid now" mode. I actually had some good sets, but my bed remained empty.

As soon as I chilled the fuck out, and started going out for fun and self amusement only, the women started coming (cumming). That mindset is just so damn attractive.

Ra1den · 2013-06-02T13:56:47+00:00

Go watch some RSDTyler and RSDJulien videos to get you into the best mindset. Recent ones are best.

Title	I'm going to burn everything to the ground!
Author	Teh_Nigerian
Upvotes	38
Comments	18
Date	June 2, 2013 4:46 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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