How do I steer the conversation towards a more sexually charged topic?

new_player · 2013-06-17T19:04:21+00:00

You can't feel awkward about it. That's the biggest thing. Next biggest thing is to do it subtly and indirectly unless you're in group talk.

Example, I was in mixed set of guys/girls and we were talking about phones. I said I could never switch from my iPhone because I've bought too many apps, and the one girl asked why I pay for apps, there's tons of free ones. Then I whipped out the phone, completely forgot I had iKamasutra on there and said "look at this, it's the best kamasutra version, I can't just give that up". And we went from there. Talked about sexual positions, checklists, etc. It was great.

If you're doing a one on one then you need to hint at it. Talking about cookies? Say how you like yours really warm and gooey, makes you all tingly. Or something. I remember one time I was talking with a girl about weather and she said something about it having been really hot the past week (as a complaint) and I just looked at her with bedroom eyes, got in just a little closer and said "I like it hot, sometimes when it gets a little sticky that's the best". She instantly retracted her complaint and said "yeah, I do too". She wouldn't leave my side after that comment.

Edit: For the record it doesn't matter if my kamasutra app was the best. In all honesty I can't even remember if I did pay for it. It was just a way to transition to a sexual topic.

origiins · 2013-06-17T18:23:25+00:00

I'm no expert on this but I'd say start gently, subtly. Try and bring into conversation about her sex life or if you have an embarrassing sex story then start there, never jump in the deep end straight away.

But like I said I'm no expert so take that advice with a pinch of salt.

showyouagoodtime · 2013-06-17T21:02:35+00:00

This may not work all the time, but I recently discussed the topic of scrotum Ironing plastic surgery procedure. It is not a sexually charged topic, but can lead to a very sexual conversation. But I suppose this could backfire just as easily.. Good Luck!

recyclablebantha · 2013-06-18T01:18:50+00:00

Basically I have trouble steering the conversations I have with women towards the more sexual. Anytime I've tried it they either get weirded out or just straight up ask me to stop. Anybody got any tips for this?

Don't be in a hurry about this. Work on making a connection first, so you can see if you actually WANT to take it to a more sexual place later. Anyway, kino does the job well enough.

Overall, I'd say that, if they're getting weirded out, then you're not paying attention to them very well, you're in your head going down the checklist of "things you should be doing" rather than paying attention to the girl who is actually the only source of information regarding WHEN you should be doing anything and HOW you should be doing it.

ThrowAwayF88 · 2013-06-17T19:04:16+00:00

Watch Craig ferguson with women collections on youtube e. pure gold

Banana_Slut · 2013-06-18T00:45:53+00:00

Make it so SHE feels weird about feeling weird about it. Control your frame and act surprised when she doesn't take.

frogma · 2013-06-18T05:24:30+00:00

I hardly ever bring up sex stuff in a "verbal" way. I usually just use eye contact and body language to set the tone.

slashnovels · 2013-06-21T19:34:11+00:00

I hate puns and sexual jokes. It's kind of an attempt to make the situation sexual, without revealing anything of yourself. You like it hot/gooey/hard/soft/whatever? Probably just a joke and I would take it as such. Talking about sex and sexuality when it comes up in conservation is great. You're finding out about each other and flirting without being corny...

shfancy_pants · 2013-06-17T23:04:04+00:00

you can never go wrong with the MM "question game"!

You: Let's play the question game.

Her: What's the question game?

You: Well, it's like Truth or Dare but without the Dare, because I don't know how weird you are yet!(notice the slight neg) The questions have to be good ones ok? no of that "where do you work" b.s. understand? k good, You go first!

Her: I can't think of anything!

You: Ok, how many boyfriends have you had?

From there the questions will get deeper and more sexual as the game goes along.( ex- you "where's your favorite place to be bitten?" if she says things are getting to sexual simply say "my bad, just seemed like you were leading the question topics that way" AND THEN so that its not awkward, immediately go back to a an answer she gave you and ask her about it. you" hey so you said you wanted to be a teacher, why is that?" and continue the game) Then after you have been playing for a few minutes, when it's your turn you can say

You: I have a good question for you Would you like to kiss me?

Her: I don't know (if she says no simply respond with the classic "didnt say you could, just wondering")

You: Let's find out!

kiss

You: I thought so!

Don't go overboard with the sexual questions though. Asking even one of the above questions might do just fine, especially if she responds positively, which is your cue that she would also be ready for the final question. And also if you get her laughing a lot THATS when you want to ask her the kiss question.

Siddly · 2013-06-17T19:30:54+00:00

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scratchii · 2013-06-17T20:34:15+00:00

Start with innunedos

2013-06-22T00:05:10+00:00

If a strange man brings up sex in the conversation out of nowhere it really weirds me out. A sexy man won't have to talk about sex. It seems like he's trying too hard. His sex appeal should speak for itself. Just some advice for you boys... don't be creeps.

mrnaughtyboy · 2013-06-17T19:05:54+00:00

The Cube used to be a good way to do this, before it got played out.

Talking about relationships, past boyfriends (and any good feelings they gave the girls) is a good way to get there. You can then ask them what their ideal man is, what makes them feel sexy as a woman, etc.

coolfahad76 · 2013-06-17T20:03:12+00:00

Start with a strong frame (physical right away). Night game? Try to embrace her right away or when she goes for a handshake, pull her in and embrace. Clear intent, she'll know whats up.

RSD infields are amazing for this!

Title	How do I steer the conversation towards a more sexually charged topic?
Author	Siddly
Upvotes	27
Comments	34
Date	June 17, 2013 5:59 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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