Hey everyone!

So this is an FR that takes place over the span of a little more than a month. If any of you had read my latest FR, it's about the same girl. It's a french girl I had met at a party my friend was throwing and I think this is a perfect case to inspire some of you, because things between me and her went from really cold, to really hot. I'm going to pick this up where my last FR left off, let's dig in!

So, as some of you might know me and the girl had exchanged a small kiss at the party and I really wanted to see her again (alone), so later that week, after having chilled 1 or 2 more times among friends, I sent her a message on FB asking her if she'd like to grab some drinks. Result? She never answered me. Fuck. So what did I do? I simply organized a night out with my friends on the day I wanted to go with her, and on that very day she sent me a message and tagged along with us.

Now this is where it gets messy. Fast forward a few days or so and we're all at a bar having some drinks. She mentions going up to Montreal the next day cause she has to check out some appartments, I mention I have my day free and bam we organize a day out in the city.

So I made her visit a couple of things, we went to the observatory on the olympic stadium (pretty awesome) and had a good time. She had to visit an appartment around 5 so we drove back downtown, and here's where my heart stopped. As I park the car, I turn to her and touch her arm and say "come closer" as I myself inch a little closer.

She looks at me, says "what are you doing?" laughs, and gets out of the car.

FUCK. Complete and total door slam right in my face. I got out of the car and (thanks to seddit) did not apologize and instead said I didn't want to make her uncomfortable and that I simply felt like doing that in the moment. She says "well, you made me uncomfortable" and we move on from there. Rest of the day was actually decent, but I was pretty bummed nonetheless.

After this event, I actually felt good because my intentions were perfectly clear and there wasn't going to be any misunderstanding. So I let things flow from there and let her breathe, I just acted fucking normal lol, like my usual self. It actually felt like nothing had happened after a while and we were back on square one, fresh start.

We went to go see a concert together (the xx and grizzly bear down by canal lachine), I helped her move to her new appartment in Montreal... etc. We did many things together and we became pretty damn close.

IMPORTANT NOTICE

At this point I was terribly afraid of falling in the friendzone, but I kept being sexual, teasing, a lot of kino, etc. I was sitting on a fucking fence. I was thinking "why does she spend so much time with me but shut me down? She must only see me as a friend.." Nonetheless I kept it up and made my intentions as clear as possible, I felt like we were getting closer to one another.

She eventually starts being much more open and fun via texting (she was always ridiculously distant) and I took that as a good sign.

DISCLAIMER

Keep texting minimal!!! I never never never texted her for no reason or "just to chat." I was always planning something and from THERE we'd have a brief conversation. DON'T BE A NEEDY CHUMP.

On the 23rd, the eve of the Saint-Jean holiday here in Quebec, my friend threw a party where we could all sleep over and she came along, but couldn't sleep over because she had work at 7 the next morning.

Guys, this was the first time in A MONTH where I could ALMOST be 100% sure by saying "she wants me". I was in the dark the whole fucking time, I had oneitis and was going fucking crazy over the mixed signals. But at this party, she threw on heavy kino, especially when I was wearing only my bathing suit.

Eventually she had to leave and we said bye, and I felt like shit because I felt like I should've accompanied her to the bus stop.

She texted me a few minutes after leaving, and I cracked a joke saying "don't forget your pepper spray!"

she responded with "hey it's your fault if something happens, I know deep inside you sent me that message because you feel bad about yourself"

And then I said something like "yeah.. I should've accompanied you to the bus stop huh..? This place is pretty dangerous."

GOLDEN RESPONSE

She says: "Yeah, you should of.."

NOW we have something! I was pretty fucking excited, and on tuesday she texted me to do something thursday, friday and saturday, lol! I went to her place with my friend and his girlfriend on thursday to have supper, which was cool, and on friday (yesterday) we met up at the jazzfest in montreal. This is where the fun is!

CLOSING

So I drove up with my buddy to the jazzfest to meet her and 2 of her friends. Early on in the day she mentioned we could sleep over at her appartment if we'd drink too much. We leave jazzfest around midnight and head over to a bar nearby. This whole time she was being VERY touchy, much more than usual. I knew something was going to go down. We sit down, me next to her and my friend next to her friend (one of them had left). And our legs were touching. After a while, I nonchalanty place my hand on her knee under the table while talking with the others and leave it there. Eventually I take it off and she comes and grabs my hand in hers (YES!!!). The whole night, we kept touching under the table, scratching our legs, touching hands, etc. Until my friend and her friend got up to go to the bathroom. We talked for like 20 seconds and then I pulled her in for a long, intense makeout..

After that, we simply got to her appartment the 4 of us, and well, the rest is history!

Thanks for reading all this way you guys!!! That's all folks! :)