Need help with night game. I can't seem to work sets when the venue is noisy.

changeh · 2013-08-07T00:02:11+00:00

I can't dance

Fuck everything about this, kid, I want you to dance man, YOU CAN DANCE, and you'll fuckin love every minute if you do this.

My man, I want you tonight, dead serious, to play this song loudly

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X98HX5nbsCI

I don't care if you don't like the song, just do it.

I want you to practice dancing in front of the mirror.

Keep dancing, I want you to shout the lyrics. Literally. Learn the beat, eventually you'll just realize, all dancing is moving to the left and right to that beat. Once you get that back and forth going, because you will, (it takes literally 5 minutes to learn),

start adding hand motions, when left foot is out left shoulder is out. Raise your hands. It's so simple. Smile. Smile more, keep fucking smiling, kid.

I want you to do this for 15 minutes. Just 15 minutes. Then move on to a song that you hear in these loud venues.

Dancing is so easy, but that's not what even matters, it's unbelievably fun, relieving, and I promise you five hundred and fifty fucking percent, if you can conquer this, you'll never have problems with inner game again (not saying you do)

JUST BE REAL and fuckin dance already!

recyclablebantha · 2013-08-07T02:19:57+00:00

_________On the subject of dancing/dance lessons______________

If you want to learn to dance, I'd highly recommend it. It really takes the fear out of dancing to build a foundation of comfort that you can really only get if you've studied dance. Bluffing your way through it will help in the short term but in the long term, you'll see your fear become FAR more manageable, if you study take dance classes in dancing that you can use in whatever venue you like to go to.

I can't dance (considering lessons).

Are you near a university/college? You can probably take dance classes there. Paying for a 1 credit dance class through a university is going to be rather cost-effective because it will likely be a 1 hour class that meets twice a week over the course of a semester. And being a registered student for the class offers you the opportunity to take advantage of one on one time with the dance teacher during office hours if there is anything that you're stuck on in class. ;)

I'd recommend a hip-hop class, regardless, because the moves you'd learn in such a class are transferable to any dance venue that's playing pop, hip-hop or most dance music.

There are a lot of tutorials on Youtube:

Knowing the two-step will get you pretty far.
There are lots of good video tutorials you could check out in "Related videos / Suggestions" section when you click the link above. Or search "How to" + "the name of a dance style", for more.

___________As far as opening tips go......______________

Are there any tips on opening sets in a noisy night club setting? Eye contact, body language..... I find it extremely hard to work any set when the venue is really loud.

This question comes up about once every week on Seddit. You'll find a lot of useful information if you do a search of Seddit with the words "dance" or "night club," "loud," or "night game".

But you already realize that the venue is designed around non-verbal activities...... And yes, the best way to open would be non-verbally. Here are some guidelines for one kind of non-verbal approach you could use:

Go out onto the dance floor and enjoy yourself. (It's key that you are able to enjoy the fun and goofiness of music and dancing, even if you haven't taken classes, or else you risk having an air of need when you go out onto the floor.)
Interact with everybody, boys and girls. Scan over the crowd and share the revelry with everyone. If the lyrics of a song or anything about the song strikes you as funny, let yourself smile and share that with everyone. If you see someone doing a funny move, copy it!
As you scan the crowd, make eye contact with people. If it's a guy, give a head-nod or whatever you want to do. If it's a girl, hold the eye contact until you get a reaction. If it's negative, no problem, keep scanning.
If it's positive, you can slowly dance over to her area...... That's all the opener you need, really.

Note: Once you've opened and progressed with a girl, she'll probably push to talk to you...... and by then it will be no problem: you can use the loud noise as an excuse to kino and get closer to her.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-08-07T04:26:08+00:00

Look on YouTube for "The formula for night game." It has extensive tutorials on nonverbal game. Don't miss the live demo with a woman about 30 minutes into the video.

seddude · 2013-08-08T14:26:13+00:00

get a hair cut

Title	Need help with night game. I can't seem to work sets when the venue is noisy.
Author	changeh
Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	August 6, 2013 11:46 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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