Beginner. how do you initiate Kino within the first 10 seconds

Smiles_27 · 2013-10-09T00:52:41+00:00

Getting used to touching people you talk with. Somewhere balls deep in the endless FAQ's on the sidebar to your right is some brilliant insight into basic touch.

A guy put forth that simple touch is very easy to get into and figure out as you go along. Just simple touch everyone you talk with in a neutral and friendly zone!

Ask that hot sales girl where the bathroom is, smile like a pro, she tells you, extend your arm to her shoulder, brighten the smile just a little and thank her. (The part of the arm I'm talking about is the shoulder.. NOT near the neck, near where the arm meets the torso)

Sounds so simple, right? Starting is the hard part, it's kinda like a roller coaster... The anticipation up to that first drop is insane, but once you're over the top you just enjoy the rest of the ride!

puaCurveBall · 2013-10-09T03:08:02+00:00

Shake her hand. Touch her shoulder. Whatever.

CruelAutumn · 2013-10-09T01:35:01+00:00

use of hand gestures is a good way. Since you're most likely within arms reach, use conversational hand gestures to sort of gauge how comfortable she'd be to your touch (gesturing your hands in her 'personal space'). Honestly I'd say just go ahead and touch her arm/shoulder within seconds of meeting her, but if you're unsure that's a good way to start.

L1AM · 2013-10-09T03:19:44+00:00

The best way to do it is to get used to it, to make it habit, to make it part of you. Touch them lightly on the shoulder at the end of a conversation. If you're next to each other standing, press your forearm against hers. Only make these last a second – longer, or too overt, and she'll ask why you're touching her so much. If seated, just have some sort of contact and don't shy away from it.

High fives are great for low-risk kino, and getting yourself into situations where you would give out high fives (congratulations! You did ___ so well! *(high five)) will make you a more positive person.

Basically, get yourself into situations where it'd be natural to touch them briefly. It's rougher than a soft, sensual lover's touch, but it's softer than how you would clap your bro on the shoulder. Eventually, it just becomes natural and you hardly think about it any more.

ninja e: I hope this made some sense.

2013-10-09T01:19:03+00:00

Shake hands

ServingSize · 2013-10-09T04:17:16+00:00

it depends on the setting. if its nightgame, i am almost immediately putting my arm around her waist after shaking her hand and holding onto it until she lets go.

Now if its day game, simple touches on arm works originally and then goes from there. Check out the dicarlo escalation ladder (google it)

IceCream_Social · 2013-10-09T04:53:24+00:00

Notice her jewelry or clothing, almost all girls have some jewelry on them, if not make a remark about their clothing and touch it. Just go for it and act natural

Jake_STi-RA · 2013-10-09T06:08:50+00:00

Slap her in the ass.

Actually, I just shake her hand and hold on for a few seconds when I ask her name.

2013-10-09T03:03:40+00:00

Hug, handshake, or high-five.

HappyJerk · 2013-10-09T22:19:09+00:00

say something hilarious and then touch them on the back when they are doubled over in laughter

twistednipples · 2013-10-10T18:25:10+00:00

Hi what's your name? Shake hands, really nice to meet you I'm whatever

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2013-10-09T04:44:25+00:00

There's nothing weird about kino. You just do it. It's only difficult for you because you're not used to using kino.

anhtice · 2013-10-09T05:37:57+00:00

If you're at a club, I can usually go for grinding right away. It's alot of non verbal contact at first like eyes. Then again I et lucky and it's a friend of a friend etc

bubuskus · 2013-10-09T01:01:30+00:00

just touch her body numbnutz

Title	Beginner. how do you initiate Kino within the first 10 seconds
Author	jstew7e
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Date	October 9, 2013 12:24 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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