Good openers for online dating

Exhibitionistcouples · 2013-11-11T07:05:37+00:00

Find profile. Read profile. Relate to profile (or go to next profile). Tell girl "Hi, I liked this about your profile cause I'm into the same thing." End with some form of "say hi sometime soon" without a conditional like "if you are interested"

Send message.

CapAWESOMEst · 2013-11-11T08:02:46+00:00

I've been using a variant of "hey! What's the cutest fact you know?" And "what's something you love doing but suck at?" Followed by a cute/relatable example. If they reply then I'll actually check our their profile.

nobody2000 · 2013-11-11T12:55:09+00:00

I'm good at getting messages back as long as there's enough in her profile to make a joke. The last girl I dated had something in hers that said something like "I don't want to date my twin."

I opened with: "You say you don't want to date your twin...well I have great news, I'm 99% sure that we didn't share a uterus together."

Then pretty much anything I say is good, provided that I at LEAST get a number in 2 or 3 messages. Arranging a date works well too.

One girl had in her profile: "Farts are ALWAYS funny." So I risked commenting on that.

"At the risk of completely alienating you, I would like to discuss why farts are humanity's purest joke, and the evidence is quite simple. Ever see a baby fart? When it happens, he or she immediately lights up and begins laughing uncontrollably." Then I introduced myself. She responded back and I set up a date with her.

I'm not good at working with limited profiles. I never say the right things when I'm commenting on someone's picture(s), and teasing about career choices usually end up with me saying something borderline insulting (I'm a very poor wordsmith).

But with playful humor and banter, I fare out well. It's definitely not the ONLY way to go, but being a fat, ugly dude, it at least gets her to look at my profile and shoot a message back.

underscorespelledout · 2013-11-11T05:46:55+00:00

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imwrighthere · 2013-11-11T09:09:25+00:00

I ususally go with "what is one secerect that you're willing to admit to a stranger?"

poopyfarts · 2013-11-11T11:47:08+00:00

"Would you like to see my penis?"

rainyhour · 2013-11-11T13:59:00+00:00

I usally open with "Hey bby asl ;*" as a joke. Most girls laugh and play along, if they do not I stop chatting with them.

joshsway · 2013-11-11T14:27:24+00:00

My general advice is to open with a short 1-2 liner that has to do with their profile. Unfortunately, tinder doesn't give you that many options for a good open based on a profile, so try something based on a picture. I prefer real dating sites to tinder though.

mydark · 2013-11-11T20:25:24+00:00

Not a PUA but whenever I used to do stuff online I would look what others were doing and try to do something different. Most of the time I'd just write fucked up stuff just to amuse myself. Used to draw interest and made it more interesting.

yea_tht_dnt_go_there · 2013-11-12T03:08:58+00:00

"hey can you keep a secret" It puts their mind into overdrive.

relationshipanswers · 2013-11-28T14:04:52+00:00

There is alot of ways to start out in online dating.

One way is to ask about something specific about their profile. This will get the girl to check out you profile and if she is interested you will hear from her.

This website i think is great for online dating:

http://yournewpartner.net

tingerwoods · 2013-12-09T03:45:49+00:00

it's much better to use online dating, cause you can see their picture, bio, location, age etc. but not all are honest , some are posers, sexual predators . but online dating is good :)

http://effortlessdating.net

surangasasa · 2013-11-11T15:32:49+00:00

Online dating is for losers! But the only online dating opener that works is a social opener like "Free New York Champagne Party! for Singles" and you have to host that party for girls. Invite few of your guy friends as well but its mostly going to be you and a bunch of ugly girls. (Because people dating online are shit but if you don't believe that, 1 in 5 relationships do start online)

MoBlunts · 2013-11-11T21:58:26+00:00

Try 107644478996f2f5610075. Computers and low quality bitches create internet profiles, desirable bitches have no need

catchlight22 · 2013-11-11T05:21:14+00:00

"Hey - what's up?"

Kazmtg · 2022-09-16T02:08:43+00:00

Title	Good openers for online dating
Author	tehgreatist
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Date	November 11, 2013 3:54 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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