Has learning more about seduction put you off of it?

petesler · 2013-12-02T03:11:33+00:00

This is a phase that a lot of aspiring PUAs go through. The knowledge and experience the game brings makes them hate the game. These experiences are deeply emotional and challenge our sense of self as well as our understanding of what it is to interact with others. To make it even more complicated, we have confirmation bias and a need to protect our egos filtering these experiences.

Women aren't shallow and dishonest. Neither are men. You've just got some hang ups about your self. Keep working on your game.

Pit_Sweat · 2013-12-01T23:52:13+00:00

I think that's just a pessimistic way of looking at things. Women in general are no more dishonestly shallow than men are. How many guys have you seen pretend to be all alpha and then crumble and go beta at the sight of an attractive woman?

kingcal · 2013-12-02T04:28:25+00:00

No.

It's silly to judge women for being receptive to men's attention particularly when you're trying to seduce them. Don't hold a woman's sexual drive against her. It's working in your favor. It's like biting the hand that feeds.

SingAlong_Original · 2013-12-02T02:48:45+00:00

If you view women like that you are simply fucked up.

We all lie, sometimes we have to man. If a girl puts on her profile "looking for sex" she gets 1000 creepy PMs.

Afeni02 · 2013-12-02T04:16:15+00:00

You need more experience with girls OP, just because all the girls you came across are what you described above because of your own fucked up game, doesn't mean that all of them are, you just have to know what you're doing. work on your inner game!

2013-12-02T05:01:35+00:00

You do realize that you are studying how to approach HUNDREDS, possibly thousands of woman and fuck as many as possible right?

You, who are spending probably an incredible amount of time DEVOTED to learning how to fuck women, are CHASTISING woman for wanting to have sex.

If you were talking to an okay girl and a beautiful girl comes over, you WILL ditch the okay girl. You'd most likely ditch the girl with personality if the 10 would want to fuck.

Girls are PEOPLE, and we're all trying to maximize what we get out of life.

It's all perspective, don't get high and mighty over women.

UKBodyLanguage · 2013-12-02T11:33:38+00:00

You are wrong on so many levels it's unreal! Firstly there is nothing bad about a women wanting sex, if you could have a sexy adventure with a confident chick you just met in a bar you would. Secondly, ALL women are like this. They get horny around the right guys. Pull your head out the sand asshole, it's bitter deluded men like you that make everyone else's lives harder.

Much love :)

kittenz23 · 2013-12-02T05:36:35+00:00

I confronted this myself, before Reddit actually, and I felt the same way as you. But I try not to get caught up in where it took me, and is taking you. Remember that inner game is worth it in and of itself, and that you also need outer game to get the girl you want. For me personally, I've been practicing most of what I've read in seddit everyday, and still havent had sex in over a year. But I can tell you that Ive benefited in life from it. Im able to connect with people on a deeper level, and that works fine with my goals.

JohnStamosEnoughSaid · 2013-12-02T06:10:34+00:00

50/50 bud just as many asshole men and women out there. Its the assholes that are wreckin it for us good guys and gals. They are out there just gotta look harder and see thesigns ive found. Lots of great ladies out there and men too i refuse to be one of them. I dont take shit but i treat anyone great if they do the same.

2013-12-03T05:11:28+00:00

My total lack of success and realization that women are scum made me quit. Still no kisses, still a virgin, still never even hung out with a girl alone.

Reddit_SLC · 2013-12-01T23:53:52+00:00

No.

If anything, it has enlightened me even more to the game being played around me. I don't have to play it, sure, but then I will just become a pawn to the game being played around me.

I would prefer to be a master of that game.

Title	Has learning more about seduction put you off of it?
Author	Mertwented
Upvotes	16
Comments	15
Date	December 1, 2013 9:54 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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