A very common question is "What should I say to the girl?". Seduction community has made tons and tons of routines to address this problem until some people realized it's better to go down the natural path and be spontaneous.

The problem is this is gonna put a lot of pressure on the newbie. He's gonna freak out because he's still in the mindset of "I should impress her" or "I need to say the appropriate/right thing to attract her". We all know this type of thinking is very counter-productive to our mission and goal.

Fact is you should be impressing yourself not the girl. This is where self-amusement comes in. Is approaching that cute girl going to impress yourself? If yes, do it. Is saying that thing going to make yourself feel better? Then say it. Is going for the kiss going to make you feel like a boss? Then go for it. But catch yourself as soon as you start thinking about "I'm gonna say this so she likes me." or "I'm gonna do this so she's impressed with me" and switch back to self-amusement.

tl;dr Amuse yourself players not the girl, and hopefully she'll be amused too!

(Oh BTW you're gonna fuck up sometimes but it doesn't matter since you at least impressed yourself and learned something valuable.)