The title was a little unclear. My situation is as such; I've met a girl through a friend of a friend at a bar, k-closed and number closed. Set up a date and went for coffee, which went really well. Now I'm tempted to stop going out clubbing/gaming, because it seems likely that we'll be seeing each other. But I have a niggling feeling that I'm getting emotionally invested too early. So I thought this would be a good subject for discussion generally. Hit me with your thoughts!