How many previous partners is too many?

nofilmynofucky · 2018-11-08T20:43:42+00:00

If you want a hard number, the stats show that after about 13 partners, she's almost guaranteed to be incapable of long term pair bonding (divorce rates etc skyrocket after this point)

Does this rule out the possibility of an LTR with 99% of 2018 women? Yes. Enjoy the decline.

tacopower20 · 2018-11-08T18:46:34+00:00

“You know you gotta multiple by 3”

SalporinRP · 2018-11-08T20:24:40+00:00

This is the subject of a lot of debate on here. Obviously low n-count is better, but even if a girl tells you her number you don't even know if she's telling the truth. So if 95% of girls are gonna lie and say a lower number why should it factor in?

In my experience girls with high n-counts will usually possess other red flags that you should be looking out for so asking what a girl's count is becomes redundant.

To answer your question, I would say 6 dudes at 22 isn't bad assuming she's telling the truth. So she made it through all of college with only 3 one night stands. I knew girls who would have 2-3 in a single week. If you like her, go for her.

I would also advise asking a girl what her count is. In my opinion only bad things can happen from it.

christophertracy92 · 2018-11-08T18:36:53+00:00

It only takes one Alpha to fuck up a woman. You dont want to mess with Alpha widows.

boy_named_su · 2018-11-08T18:56:59+00:00

Doesn't matter for plates

You want single digits for an LTR else she can't pair bond

You're too young for an LTR (If you're same age as her)

Edit: a downvote. You fucking morons. The number of pre-marital sex partners is correlated with higher divorce rates: https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

michaelburke34 · 2018-11-08T21:08:36+00:00

6 isn’t bad for a 22 year old girl IMO. It’s kinda a subjective thing as far as how many previous partners is too many. Some guys just don’t care if a girl has had sex with 100 guys but some other guys won’t get into a serious relationship with a girl unless she is a virgin. So i’d say that whatever number of partners bothers you is too many. Also take into account she may be lying and giving you a lower number so she doesn’t seem like a total slut, so make sure you take into account how she behaves and her personality and stuff like that.

freew33zy · 2018-11-08T18:51:04+00:00

6 isn't super high. Should vet over time, treading carefully (because it's kind of high). My personal bar used to be 2 and under when I was younger (18). Met a girl who was at 3 when I was 19, but she was good in other ways. Had to re-evaluate if I was being too strict. Ended up deciding I was being too strict, been dating for two years. Feel stupid for ever having negotiated that in my head because we have a one-way open relationship and I've fucked way more girls while with her than she has in her lifetime.

I've since decided my personal number would be about 5. I think once you get into double digits you're dealing with a girl who just has way too much baggage. But is 6 any worse than 5? Honestly I have no clue. You just need to get to know her and see if she's a good LTR candidate beyond the number. 6 isn't an auto-disqualifier, at least it shouldn't be, but it would make me weary of her. Besides, think of it like this: she's at 6 now. In all likelihood, you and her won't work out (statistically) and she's only 22. She's not going to go back to one of her old guys. So there's likely to be another after you, too, and then she's getting close to double digits. And so that's the character of this girl, but it's still borderline. Just vet carefully.

izzyinjurious · 2018-11-08T18:47:53+00:00

What the fuck does it matter? Why are you holding onto the past? Focus on now. If you like her you like her. Just watch her actions and adjust accordingly. Just watch her actions follow trp guides and live life man. Plus you should never ask nor care, cause AWALT. Simple.

DiscordantMonk · 2018-11-08T20:58:36+00:00

You must be banging away and the images of these six cocks banging your girl just make you go limp.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-11-09T02:39:43+00:00

You'll never know her true N count. Firget what she says and what you think you know about her. The only thing you should worry about is her behavior. Does she act like a hoe?

chazthundergut · 2018-11-09T16:17:14+00:00

Too many for what?

Too many to fuck? Nah. Be her lucky number 7.

Too many to LTR? You shouldn't be looking for a LTR anyways you thirsty bitch

Poutvora · 2018-11-08T18:47:30+00:00

That is one ONS after each boyfriend. Could be worse. She hasn't been on CC yet it seems.

Yet for me, if she was average(average in my view), at 22 6 would be too much probably.

downvotesanimals · 2018-11-08T23:11:50+00:00

9 max ONLY. 10 is into double digits and not at all RP.

Title	How many previous partners is too many?
Author	justyouraverageguy12
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Comments	31
Date	November 8, 2018 6:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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