Dealing with interference from other men while out, how do you guys do it?

TheSicilianDude · 2014-03-18T15:55:01+00:00

First off, relax. RELAX. It's okay. By being relaxed in the face of their annoying presence, you will look good.

Don't let them faze you. Reacting to them negatively will make you appear insecure and she will notice. They're just chodes who are jealous of you, so they don't really deserve your attention anyway.

If he is rude enough to interrupt you while you're talking to the girl, kill him with kindness first- introduce yourself, smile, etc. And then keep talking to the girl as if he isn't there. Continue where you left off in the conversation ("so, anyway, like I was saying..."). If he continues to interrupt he'll just look like an asshole.

If they are just determined to fuck up your game, take the girls number in a smooth way ("Hey, gotta get back to my friends, but let's meet up for a drink sometime!") and go talk to other girls in the mean time. At that point it's not worth trying to fight them off.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-03-18T23:58:26+00:00

Only AFTER you've done the things mentioned in the other posts, and if it's insufficient, you've got to AMOG those bitches. "Oh, whoopsies, I'm sorry, I didn't get it - YOU'RE her bf! (she will deny) Well, then I'm interfering with your pick-up. No, no, go ahead - I'll just watch and learn." Good chance then he starts qualifying himself to her and probably her.

Apex_of_Attraction · 2014-03-18T18:58:53+00:00

Hey Detachment,

Are you involving the group? If you befriend everyone and he sees that you are accepted by them, he's a lot less likely to rock the boat by going against the side of the majority.

After that, if he says something to try to provoke you the first time, befriend. Second time, ignore. Third time, reframe the girls perspective to emphasize that his bahaviour is attention-seeking. If you retaliate, you both lose. Women like a man who can stand up for himself, but not one who loses his cool.

Darragh, Apex of Attraction http://apexofattraction.weebly.com/

I3luee · 2014-03-18T13:54:51+00:00

Face it directly. You're kinda vague though: how are they trying to boast at your expense? Verbal abuse? Taunting? Nagging? Joking?

If they generally insult you and make you feel like shit and show you off as a bad example: tell them in private that this is bad. If they repeat it, tell them in public, if they keep mocking you then grab the sturdiest small object that you can find and hit the face/ head. (the head generally has little protection and is usually the weakest and most accessible area of the body) The goal in a fight is to win; doesn't matter how. A good thing though would be to give him some kind of warning (yelling at him or such) just to be fair.

If they're nagging/ teasing, but not offending you to no limit: full ignorance! People who do this are usually "attention cravers". Example: if person X says to chick Y that "hey gal, look at Z, he's so silent you'd say he ain't even here" then a good way to dodge the insult and up yourself over him would be "no, but you're boring me too much for me to talk". Comebacks! It's all in the comebacks!

On the subject of getting the attention back at you: girls generally like guys that are "more mature". Main characteristics that will give you some "easy points" in the attractive direction would be (NOT phisically related):

-be relaxed,

-feel as chill as if you're out with your best buddy which you've known since forever but be as sharp and witty at conversation as if you're presenting a new product to Bill Gates,

-never overcompliment because that tells the chick that "she got you" already,

-don't look too much at the chick you're interested in, actually try and avoid that for the first quarter/ half an hour, then make sure that "you get caught looking at her"

-be good at conversation (have something to say about the subject) but not only with her, with the people around also,

-be "the silent type": From what I know, most chicks I met (let's say 80%) like that type, or at least are interested enough as to start a conversation with a guy that's like that,

-take random discussions that you find in this section, they are gold!

Good luck and sorry for the long post! :<

Title	Dealing with interference from other men while out, how do you guys do it?
Author	Detatchment
Upvotes	15
Comments	9
Date	March 18, 2014 1:38 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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