How to Prevent Double Dates??

puaCurveBall · 2014-05-18T22:06:08+00:00

Don't accept them.

Certainly don't pay for anything, and when they tell you they are bringing someone, just cancel the date. (of course better to handle this in your first interaction so it never comes up)

When you are timebridging your day2, you certainly aren't mentioning her bringing a friend, right? So if she is agreeing to a solo date with you, then it should never come up.

joshsway · 2014-05-18T22:25:04+00:00

As puaCurveball said, don't go. Cancel. These dates are stupid and pointless. As far as paying, I mean, who cares.

DaygameCoach · 2014-05-19T04:51:16+00:00

Why don't you contact Nick Quick? (Nick Rogue, The Charming Rogue). He is a SDS type PUA Coach. I think he is based in Vegas right now, but he was based in Columbia for years. He would know the culture and how to game there. He also had video products. He is pretty accessible. You can say Cuisine sent you.

-Cuisine, www.daygamer.net

DrewCruise · 2014-05-19T05:35:57+00:00

I think you need to find some amigos that are better wing men. Your wing men need to learn how to isolate the other amiga.

I've also had a couple times that my buddies invited me on double dates and I had zero chemistry with the wingwoman.

This is why you need a good wing man. Sometimes you just have to keep the other amiga distracted so she does not cock block your wing man. Do this for him so next time he has to distract the cock blocking amiga to help you get the f-close.

The girls expect you to pay for their taxi cabs, their drinks and the shitty food

That's probably why this has become popular. This is supplication behavior and it does not create attraction. You just have to learn not to do it and come up with plans to avoid it. When a girl asks me to buy her a drink, I jokingly say, "I only buy drinks for my girlfriends." Or if I want to really push hard, "I only buy drinks for women that I have sex with." But, be advised, this can also come off as jerk behavior.

As for the cab ride just say, "We got to go see a friend first, see you amigas at the club." Or something... just make up an excuse to have them meet you there.

Like try this:

"We'll go early and reserve a table, don't be late chicas."

What will most likely happen next--the girls we'll arrive late. You just act as if you already ate. "Hey amigas we got tired of waiting and ate already. You sit down and eat, we'll be at the bar / on the dance floor / in the discotech."

Again this could come off as jerk, d-bag behavior so you may have to make adjustments for your style. The bottom line is that YOU set the agenda: Always Be Leading. Don't give in to their demands, think like a chess grand master and be two moves ahead.

For help with wing men, watch this then share with your amigos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1yyZNZKp2DY&index=5&list=WL

Julien from RSD has other good advice for handling logistics.

Apex_of_Attraction · 2014-05-19T12:07:16+00:00

Sometimes country customs and traditions take precedence when you're playing away from home. Then again, it's important for you as a man to stick to your principles. If you don't want to double date like children, refuse. That way you maintain your integrity. If she refuses, elicit more of an investment from her so that next time you don't get the objection. It's the same frame as a parent/child relationship. The kid wants it's ice-cream but the parent knows best.

SmellyJelly22 · 2014-05-18T23:34:29+00:00

I think this is a great opportnity. If you are on a double date you can just be yourself, jave fun and do whatever you want. Then end the date early to leave her wantong more. But def dont pay for things. Act like you're.poor.

TimPartendale · 2014-05-18T22:58:08+00:00

Well it's easy for us to say "don't go on these double dates", but the reason OP is asked is because that's the norm in Colombia. Rather we should be stressing that the world does not stop if you don't do things that are "socially normal".

Title	How to Prevent Double Dates??
Author	jroseland
Upvotes	3
Comments	25
Date	May 18, 2014 10:03 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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