Anyone not drink? How does it affect your game?

bl1y · 2014-06-07T14:16:19+00:00

If you act embarrassed about not drinking, it'll hurt your game. If you don't, it won't, and could potentially help your game. It takes more courage to go out to a bar and meet women without drinking, I think.

Bitterposer · 2014-06-07T15:37:29+00:00

It shouldn't matter. You shouldn't give a fuck what people think.

2014-06-07T14:48:42+00:00

When I drink: my actions and words are bolder, but a bit sloppier. It's easier for me to get into state (because drunk), but depending on how much I drink, I find that it might be harder for me to maintain state or I'm a bit "sloppier".

When I'm sober: it's much harder for me to get into state, but when I'm in state, I'm in state. My mind is clear and calm, but energetic. But this only happens when I get the ball rolling, which can be hard when I'm sober.

All-in-all, it won't affect your game much. As long as you put in the effort, it might actually be better in the long-run because it forces you to develop skills without the crutch of alcohol. Even though drinking is fun. :x

DaygameCoach · 2014-06-07T15:38:18+00:00

you don't have to drink. I don't drink when gaming.

tajbinjohn · 2014-06-07T16:12:27+00:00

Not being sober hurts most peoples game. It kills mine.

Dorking · 2014-06-07T20:24:00+00:00

For me beinga sober on a night out makes me feel like a king your feeling buzzed because you are in control.

ATOMxTHExGREAT · 2014-06-07T13:12:51+00:00

I quit drinking... When I go out I order red Bull on the rocks as every other drink followed by an orange juice and cranberry. It makes me have a little less confidence but over all it makes for a great conversation.

Raknosha · 2014-06-07T14:15:53+00:00

Little less confidence, little more control. Kind of equals out each other. I often don't deink when I'm out. Where I'm from it's looked strange upon though, so I make sure to have my car ready as an excuse, as simply saying you didn't want to drink today with confidence is often looked strange open. Weird culture..

For game reasons. I definently prefer not drinking, that way I have a better chance at not messing up basics, and a quicker wit to make recovery

The_bamboo · 2014-06-07T14:37:44+00:00

Some nights I'll drink some I won't. I was diagnosed with hypomania which is a bipolar spectrum mental disorder causing a persistent disinhibition.

As a result I don't see much difference in my game.

The overall advice you'll get on this thread is simple: you're smarter when you're sober but it's easier to get caught up in your own head.

If you can figure out how to lose some inhibition and be unwavering as you approach sets, nothing will change.

EpicStumblin · 2014-06-07T15:29:01+00:00

I do, but I'm usually the DD. I Usually have 2 beers right when I get to the bar and thats it, so after 4/5 hours I'm sober. It helps me find my state and then once I sober up I stay in state. Works almost every time.

hands0me_man · 2014-06-07T23:37:40+00:00

I love to drink but I stop at a point in which I still have complete control of my actions.

Title	Anyone not drink? How does it affect your game?
Author	Dmac680chi
Upvotes	7
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Date	June 7, 2014 1:06 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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