Killing attraction by being too available

ImmortalAl · 2014-07-21T00:56:37+00:00

Have the discipline to adopt a no-texting policy with yourself. When you make yourself unavailable by not texting the girl all the time you are keeping the ball in your court and retaining the power to reject her instead of giving her the power to reject you. If you stop texting so much you'll be able to expand her interest and retain control of the relationship by making her wait for a text from you. I know it may appear as though you are uninterested but it will work out in the long run. You have a larger chance of losing the girl in the early stages. Leave some mystery so that the girl will look forward to your next date. Text messages are easily misconstrued as well. Only use texting for purposeful messages like for planning the next date.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-07-21T10:07:30+00:00

Just stop checking your phone. You have agency. Every time you check your phone, you're making the choice to do so, whether or not you're conscious of that.

Also, enjoy just chilling at home! If you don't have plans and you're just chilling at home, you might as well enjoy it. Life is short, spend every second loving it.

LlamaFullyLaden · 2014-07-21T19:53:19+00:00

When I get home from work I go to my bedroom and change my clothes and I leave my phone there as I go work out, make dinner, clean up, etc. Leave it upstairs and only check it every few hours or something.

Also quit playing phone games (if you do). This will help you leave your phone behind for a while. Do something productive/exciting/interesting instead of Solitaire.

FireMonkeyX · 2014-07-21T09:26:47+00:00

Find something important or fun to do with your time. When you have nothing to do with your life, suddenly that one text from a girl becomes so much more important. Why are you chilling at home?

Not2original · 2014-07-21T14:23:45+00:00

Turn your phone off/ leave it at home.

Title	Killing attraction by being too available
Author	Ru5k0
Upvotes	12
Comments	10
Date	July 21, 2014 12:22 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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