So I either open with something situational based on where we are or the standard hi + indactor of interest, after that I talk about generic stuff.

OR if I'm feeling lazy/ don't have time to talk; hey are you down to date?/I'm free on Saturday from x-x wanna go out/grab a coffee.

I just need some pointers on moving the conversation sexual with real examples that you have used ( more than once) not the I read it on bla bla/ bla said it crap.