I've been theorizing this for some time. I don't really know if this might be too obvious to some or is basic to most, but here are my two cents:
In economics, when a resource or good is scarce, its value is increased. On the opposite, if it's abundant, its value decreases. How does this apply to Seduction? I've noticed how in many instances, in nightclubs or bars, when I particularly see there are many more men than women (which happens pretty often), I've observed how women reject men more than when there are more women than men.
Take, for instance, those nightclubs with two women dancing and at least 5 guys around them not even trying to interact. Besides the obvious problem here, the men were not only effing up their chances by not talking, but also by making them feel scarce or unique in value: the girls have so many options they wouldn't even care if rejected them.
Take the opposite: frat parties. Do you know why is it so difficult to get into one (when you aren't a frat boy) as a dude (girls get in way easier)? It's simple: they want to limit the amount of men in the party to increase their value. I remember when I sneaked into one and one girl approached me and started talking to me. She was really cute, prob a HB8/9, while I am not really an adonis (must say than in very few instances has a girl approached me to talk in a bar), I do work out and have built a fairly jacked body that I was showing that day very day. I know we can talk all day about how frat parties are meant for hookups and are not really like bars. But the principle about value and scarcity are in play here: you can't just get in a frat party, and frat parties have more women than men.
Here's an experiment for you: the next time you see a bar or nightclub with more women than men, try to see how they look much more around and reject men much less, and work from there.
More specifically, my advice is:
- Avoid bars/nightclubs with noticeably more men than women.
- Work on your image: dress well, go to the gym and try looking above average (follow /r/Malefashionadvice for ideas). I.e. if you can't be in a place with more women than men, create value for yourself by being one the top good looking, be scarce
- Avoid going after the girls surrounded by dudes unless you can get their full attention
- Don't just stare to women dancing or whatever.. Don't be one of the abundant resources, interact somehow. If they reject you, move on. Next time they look around they'll see you with another girl who talked back and you will build value for yourself
- Be bold and don't fear rejection. It's a number game
Edit: grammar
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