One thing that has become apparent to me is that I don't quite understand how I look to others when I go out and have conversation with new people, and with friends. Obviously I want to be successful with both women and men, and perhaps the best way to do that is to put my best foot forward. It would be nice if I could see how others see me, so that I can tweak and correct my behaviors to fit accordingly. I also believe that that is being true to myself, changing myself to be a happy man with solid relationships. What is the best way to find out how the average person sees me? Edit: Also I am hesitant to ask a friend, simply because they will likely put it in a positive light, when I really more concerned with the whole picture.