Should I call a girl out if I can see that she's attracted to me?

husgutt · 2015-01-06T12:02:24+00:00

Being 100% honest: what do you want with this girl?

Naa2078 · 2015-01-06T11:29:59+00:00

Call her out?

God no.

Respond to her interest and masjid an opportunity to do something else, sure.

metshower · 2015-01-06T11:58:22+00:00

Though I could of gotten her number I decided not to

I think you chickened out from a fear of rejection, and you're using other excuses so you can feel better about yourself.

If a girl is into you and you're into her (are you?) then there really is no reason not to ask her out. If she was a coworker whom you saw everyday then that would've been a legitimate reason not to date her.

jdepps113 · 2015-01-06T16:15:44+00:00

It's just like in poker. Don't call a man out on his tell; capitalize on it.

It would be idiotic to say: I can tell by your lip-biting and hair-fixing that you are into me. Instead, just escalate. Start talking, touch her arm or shoulder, ask for number set up date...etc., etc.

Obviously you wanted to take it a step further and pussied out. Please for the love of God do not allow yourself to fool yourself into thinking you made this choice somehow for the right reasons. You sound like a smoker who says they could quit but don't want to.

You wanted her, you might have had a chance to get her, you took no action because you pussed out. Do not justify it. You cannot fix what you don't recognize as a problem.

I'm not trying to get on your case about pussing out. We've all done it at some time. But you're not gonna improve if you lie to yourself about what you did and make it seem like it was the right choice.

abandonliberty · 2015-01-06T16:16:25+00:00

She is Japanese. Their culture is not very into sexual intercourse or fuckbuddies. I've had a few japanese (and chinese) girls attracted to me to the point of giving me different gifts daily in class (at university.) Although I could see I was making them go crazy with my cocky funny attitude, even when I got them alone at my place, at night, in my bed:

"Only with my husband"

You see? They are from a very different culture and it's very unlikely that you will be able to get a quickie. Hell.. I once met a japanese girl at a supermarket here in scandinavia, talked and lead her around for an hour, walked to my home hand in hand (her preference), made her sit on my lap as we watch movies, danced, cooked, ate, cuddled.. The moment I went in for the kiss she RAN AWAY. She actually picked her her stuff and ran out of the flat. Can't make this shit up. I am used to scandinavian girls.. where sex is like "hello" and hand holding or touchy things are frowned upon. But still.. It will be very difficult to get anywhere with a girl from that culture; even if you "force your way", or get her drunk : she will be traumatized and think she wont be able to get married now that she's not pure.

Go for an aussie chick. Dutch. Scandinavian. German (they don't get comedy but.. some are hot and very smart), france, italian.. dont waste time on those from asian cultures.

Title	Should I call a girl out if I can see that she's attracted to me?
Author	Fuck_Dacts
Upvotes	17
Comments	15
Date	January 6, 2015 10:40 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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