A lot of this applies not only to college but outside of school too, but it's targeted toward students like myself. I have a few steady fwb's. I usually have sex with a new girl every week. Most new girls I've slept with in a week is three, a couple times. These are tips inspired by how I do things. I realize everyone is going to be a bit different, and that some things I do all the time to great effect might not fit you, and vice versa. I hope it helps.

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SETTING SELF UP FOR SUCESS

  • Game is inherently darwinistic. you are always competing with other guys. Use this as motivation.
  • Go to the gym 4-5 days a week. Focus mostly on lifting heavy weights. Most important and for girls is shoulders, arms, abs, back, and chest. But don’t neglect anything (cough leg day cough), hit your whole body throughout the week.
  • Put the right things in your body. Eat as wholesome, and nutritious foods as much as you possibly can. Limit sugary and junk food. Cut out soda and drink plenty of water throughout your day. Slow down on alcohol, two beers = a cheat meal in my mind .If you like chips or candy, change your default study snack to some fruit.
  • Try to sleep. In school all you can ask is to try. Try to get a somewhat consistent sleep schedule.
  • Stop jacking off. I mean if you really have to, you have to. But never do it like it’s a hobby again.
  • Do something with your time. If you're not in an extracurricular activity, join one you think you’d like. Have a dynamic life and spend as little time in your dorm as possible, (unless you're with a girl of course).

IOI’S

  • Consciously correct your body language throughout the day. Stand tall, walk straight, relax your shoulders. Be comfortable and laid back when you sit down. Carry yourself like you’re the fucking man.
  • Be very aware of your surroundings. Take in and observe as much as possible. Be people watching as you walk places.
  • Make eye contact with girls as you walk around. Don’t break it nervously quickly, break it casually and confidently after longer than than most people.
  • If an attractive girl, looks at you, acknowledge it. Give her a bit of a gesture right away. Smile, wave, wink, whatever comes naturally to you in the moment. They key is to signal I see you too in a confident way.
  • If you’re debating ether or not something was an IOI or approach invitation, like it may have been but she may have just looked accidentally, just assume it was an IOI. Just tell yourself she likes what she saw. Even when illogical, assume she was checking you out.

NERVES AND ANXIETY

  • Rejection is not that bad, you’ll survive it. Don’t take it personally when it happens.
  • It’s optimal to be thinking less. Try to clear thoughts from your mind before you approach.
  • A sexual state will ease nerves a bit. Check her out, look at her in a sexual way. Let your mind go where it really wants to go.
  • There is some truth to faking it till you make it in confidence. Correct your body language and carry yourself with strength and confidence..and you will feel more confident about what your doing.

OPENING

  • You really want intent to be shown on your opener. Even if you've gone a more indirect route, intent still needs to be established quickly (in the first 30 seconds to one minute).
  • Going direct is powerful and optimal. Something along the lines of “Hey, I just saw you, I thought you were pretty cute so I thought I’d come talk to you. I’m ___”
  • Indirect makes more sense in plenty of situations. However only use indirect openers to look more socially smooth, do not use indirect openers solely because you’re scared of rejection. Indirect Examples: “Hey not to bother you but can you watch my stuff while I go to the bathroom/get food/etc. I don’t feel like carrying it around.”…“Do you know a place close by with tacos, not the ones the school sells like a real place.”… “ What do you think I should get? I wanna try something different.”… “ What do you think of this class so far?”
  • Make good eye contact during the opener. Throughout your interactions with women you should, but it is especially key when opening. Don’t flinch it.
  • Touch her right away as you're opening, if possible. Like a casual touch on the back/side of arm, then let it fall off fairly quickly.

TALKING TO HER

  • Just say what’s on your mind/what you’re feeling in the moment. Even if that’s disagreeing with what she just said. In fact it’s actually quite good to disagree with her. Better conversation than just being a drone agreeing with everything.
  • Have fun. If a thought you have makes you smile or laugh mentally, then say it. Make yourself laugh. It might come out in the form of a neg, or just an observational joke about the situation. Don’t take things so seriously right now. Loosen up enough to sense humor when is there, and have fun exploiting it.
  • Try making assumptions instead of just asking questions. For example instead of “So what do you major in?” say “You major in art or something like that right? you just kind of look like it.”
  • If you met in a hall/ on the street and she was walking. Then continuing to walk with her can help get you through the first part of your conversation without awkward nothing. “Were you on your way to somewhere, let’s just keep walking that way.”
  • Be curious. Every thing she says has multiple threads into things about her that are new to you. Be curious about those things. Also assume she wants to get to know you as well.

BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION

  • You need sexual tension in order to avoid the friend zone, and flake numbers. Let the fact that you find her physically attractive turn you on, and let that influence and set the tone for your interaction with her.
  • Don’t be afraid of sexual humor. Take things she says that are ‘that’s what she said’ candidate sentences, and flip those around on her playfully.
  • Stand or sit close to her. Close enough so that if a guy got that close to you, you’d be very uncomfortable. Ease way into her personal space over time.
  • Lead her physically. Take her hand briefly when you start to walk somewhere new. Put your arm around her shoulder to pull her out of the way of things walking. Bump into her playfully and go ‘hey, watch where you’re going.’. Move her legs up over yours if your sitting down on a couch.
  • Compliment her physically. “You look really nice in that ___”...“You have a great ass, I won’t lie I did notice it”… “You have really nice eyes, and hair, like I knew you were cute for sure but I’m noticing it more now.”

BUILDING COMFORT

  • Hold back escalating too far in public areas even if you can do more. If you’re not in one of your rooms, keep it at just kisses and light touching. Not making out, just kisses.
  • Be yourself. Do not try to be cool, do not force showing status and value, do not force being what men of the internet describe as alpha. Strive to be the most cool and alpha version of yourself in life, but overall in the moment just be you. Trust that who you are is attractive. And stay where you're naturally at on the introversion extroversion spectrum.
  • Don’t be afraid of more gentle and infatuated feelings, feel free to express them if they’re there. Tell her you’re really glad that you met her, that you like her. Kiss her on the cheek or the forehead if you feel like doing that. Wrap your arm around her or hold her hand if you feel like it.
  • Open up to her, tell her things you don’t normally talk about, secrets and vulnerabilities. Nothing weird obviously, and nothing too mood killing, but open up. Act like she’s a friend in the respect that you can open up to her about things.
  • Have empathy and communicate feeling back to her. If what she says is under laced with that it makes her mad, then you need to go in your head, “Your mad I would be too”, or “I would be sad about this too”, then let that influence what you say. Read her emotions, or listen to them being said, and genuinely empathize with her.

ESCALATING

  • Don’t wait to make a move. If she’s standing there and not running away or macing you, then she wants you to escalate.
  • When you touch her it’s like relieving sexual tension. You act on impulse in the moment and after you do, things just feel more right. If you feel like doing it in the moment, it’s the right moment to do it.
  • Be persistent. Don’t quit on something after a rejection, ease up like nothing happened, continue to build sexual tension, then try again shortly.
  • If she rejects the first kiss in a being shy or “not yet” way. Kiss her on the cheek, and have her kiss you on the cheek, then immediately go for her lips again.
  • Think take two steps forward, one step back. This allows you to be bold escalating, but also smooth and not too pushy at the same time.

IN BED

  • Start as soon as you get into the room. Just get close and make out with her. Pull her hair, smack and grab her ass, etc. Before you even sit down.
  • If you take off the article of clothing first, be a step ahead in that regard. It can make it easier to get the equivalent off on her. Before you take off her bra, take off her shirt and be like that for a moment, then take off her bra.
  • Be a balance of aggressive and dominant, and sensual and loving. Sometimes for her and your pleasure you’re going to want to be mostly toward one end though. Most girls would prefer (get more wet) from the more dominant end.
  • Don’t be timid. You should have no reason to be, the deal is done. It’s not JUST “I want to put my cock in her mouth/pussy/ass.” it’s “She wants my cock in her mouth/pussy/ass” That’s what a wet pussy is basically yelling, listen to what it’s telling you, and give her what she wants.
  • NEVER EVER EVER DO ANYTHING A GIRL DOES NOT WANT TO DO. EVEN IF SHE WANT IT SHE STILL HAS EVERY RIGHT IN THE WORLD TO DELAY TAKING IT. DO NOT FORCE HER TO DO OR PARTICIPATE IN ANYTHING. IF SHE IS NOT COMFORTABLE THEN TAKE A STEP BACK. I hope this is common sense. I just thought an idiot might read my prior point the wrong way.

TEXTING

  • If you’re not in the most optimal mood, and you can’t even think of what to text back… then just don’t text back. She will survive a half day without a reply. Wait until you’re in a better mood to return to the text conversation.
  • Don’t waste time texting. You should either be having fun trying to turn or on or get her sexually curious (leading to sexting if possible), or setting up logistics for a date. Those two things should be the bulk of your texts back and forth with girls.
  • Examples of texts that can lead to sexting: “I could kiss you right now” …“You looked hot today. You need to wear (those pants/dress/skirt) every time we hang out. Send me a pic of you”… “If only I knew a girl who loved (a turn-on of hers).”