What if I just want to be that cool dude everyone likes?

mahuchu · 2015-04-11T16:14:04+00:00

Then almost all of the advice on this sub still applies to you. You need to be social and outgoing, but most importantly have value to offer.

If you're organizing social events, always having fun, introducing people, than people will start wanting to hang around you.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-04-11T16:39:52+00:00

This is the irony: your desire to be well-liked makes you seem needy and desperate, and thus unlikeable.

jonnyhaldane · 2015-04-11T20:24:05+00:00

If you want to be liked by a lot of people, you have to embrace the parts of you that people will dislike too.

DaygameCoach · 2015-04-11T23:51:02+00:00

You are definitely in the wrong reddit board. That said:

Try reading Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. It was published in 1936, seriously.

PowerSeductionWar · 2015-04-12T06:58:51+00:00

You gotta love yourself so much that it infects other people and it spreads.

I really recommend you watch the blueprint decoded

Cc99910 · 2015-04-13T13:47:40+00:00

Most of the advice here still applies. Also, /r/socialskills isn't bad either.

Title	What if I just want to be that cool dude everyone likes?
Author	Cdkrob
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	April 11, 2015 3:59 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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