I'll introduce myself 25m been working in the Australian military for 4 years and im about to leave it, ill be travelling for a few months in europe before comming back and moving to one of the cities to seek out work as an apprentice electrician. Basically im starting a new life and career path. Basically been lurking TRP for a few months trying to absorb the school of thought and reading through the side bar. I recently bought the rational male and reading through it concurrently its really good but I've only been able to read it in small doses because its that eye opening. Ive decided to create an account and ask you all your opinion on a particular event thats happened.

Basically long story short I was ljbf with a chick in our group of friends. I had to leave for a few weeks for work. Came back and got maggot drunk, found out this chick had been cut away from our group because the girls were sick of her attention seeking ways and the way she acted around us guys (more like didnt like she was getting the attention). Basically was at the pub sending her drunk texts and snap chats, shes sending me pics of her legs saying shes bored, I ask her to pick me up and when she comes I start mucking around with her shes, happy to see me, we make out and eventually we end up fucking in her car.

Rest of the week goes back to the way it was, shes distant acting the way she used too I got angry and we end up fighting the next week. Most recently I find out shes sleeping with a guy I work with and hes asking me questions of her, why shes hot then cold etc. I know she knows I work with him and basically im thinking of cutting all contact with her and telling my friends shes not welcome in the house anymore untill I leave in a few months. Is that the right thing to do because it jus angers me the way she has acted. Its a long story but im sure you guys have heard it before

To get my mind off her in the past I took up going to the gym with a friend 5 times a week and its helped get a lot of anger out basically im trying to keep the self improvement mind but I hate the way chicks can have this effect on me.