What's it like to have sex with a really hot girl?

Zerachiell319 · 2015-08-17T13:00:22+00:00

You're going to find that sleeping with "very hot" women is virtually unfulfilling. Sure, you're going to feel great and if it's the first hot girl you have you're going to feel validated but once you cum, her external beauty is going to diminish in your eyes -unless you like her for more than her physical appearance.

This goes back to the principle that we don't do pickup for the validation, we do it for self improvement. Thus, your goal shouldn't be the hot girl. Your goal should be to become the best person you can be and to provide positive emotions to the people you encounter.

2015-08-17T15:25:55+00:00

you might find that the sex is actually even worse because she has so much validation in her life she doesn't feel the need to try at all and lays there while you finally understand what it's like to fuck a sock

2015-08-17T15:37:10+00:00

It is SO awesome. You have never felt anything like it. The unfair thing is that so many of those super hot women are hyper sexual as well and willing to do all sorts of things that "normal" women are uncomfortable with. Careful though, once you go there, you can't come back.

Luffydude · 2015-08-17T15:49:41+00:00

Really hot girls have a lot more abundance of guys and therefor tend to have more experience in bed, which can make it higher quality sex.

With that said, good looking girls that aren't super hot can also have tons of experience. In fact, my best sex wasn't with the hottest ones, but with the ones who slept with the most guys.

WhosCountin · 2015-08-17T20:02:19+00:00

Personally, I find that it makes a big difference. With most girls, at some point, I have to fantasize about freakishly hot girls (like those goddamn Instagram goddesses) or crazy situations to finally cum. I thought maybe porn was to blame for a long time, but it's been months and months since I've jacked off or looked at porn so it doesn't seem to be that. I see it this way: I actually want to be fucking HB10s, so most girls are kind of a worse alternative.

This started when I dated an 18 year old 100lb 5'8" blonde in college. I lucked into it, she was extremely awkward and closed off and I knew her through friends. Persistence was key there. Anyway, since then almost every girl I've been with has been a disappointment. It's hard coming back from fucking a girl who had the body of a VS model (not as tall, but proportionally very similar, completely flat stomach, no excess fat anywhere besides her perfect ass, etc.). She was probably the least skilled in bed of any girl I've been with, but I'd take ideal looks any day. Again, otherwise I have to kind of fantasies about the girls I actually want, even if I'm with a cute girl who looks more normal/realistic rather than just looking like pure sex.

I don't understand people who say that it's unfulfilling, that wanting stunners is a symptom of trying to impress people/validate yourself, etc. We're hard wired to want to fuck gorgeous women. It's basically the ideal thing to do in life.

I spent like 4 years after that blonde gal being frustrated and disappointed in my sex life whether I was in a relationship or doing more casual stuff. Eventually decided I'd just get a hooker so I could choose a girl with the looks that I actually wanted. Hit it off with her and did acid, and she ended up quitting her job and we've been dating for a while. So I lucked into dating a very hot girl again and am not frustrated for the first time in years. Thank god, because I was getting really frustrated and hopeless and thinking that even though I was improving, I was so far off from what I actually wanted. I live in a big city, commute to work on public transportation, probably see hundreds of women a day, and I'll go days without even seeing a girl who meets the standards I wish I could uphold regularly.

YMMV, most guys I know seem much more content with anything less than the best. I guess dating that one girl in my formative years got to me... But in short, yeah, having sex with a seriously hot girl feels like "oh, this is what sex is supposed to be like". Which makes most sex seem like shit by comparison.

soggyindo · 2015-08-17T14:11:11+00:00

I had the feeling that I was mentally checking an item off some kind of personal fantasy list, but honestly it made less difference than I thought.

The best sex I've had has been with less traditionally attractive girls who laugh a lot and have fun, and/or when I felt super great about myself at that point in time, for whatever reason.

lasvegasfun · 2015-08-17T22:25:10+00:00

Having attractive girl with no connection- okay

having decent looking girl with connection- good

having attractive girl with connection(complete package)- fulfilling

In my eyes girls can only be a certain amount of attractive let's say an 8 is as high as they can get. After that it's their personality. An 8 with an amazing personality can becoming a 10, or with a horrible personality become a 5. Also my perception of attractive and yours is probably way different. For example maybe you like big boob blondes, but I prefer petite asian girl next door type.

Jacqques · 2015-08-19T01:16:49+00:00

It's just like any other girl.

It all depends on your feelings for each other and if the girl is good at sex.

A hole is a hole, doesn't (much) matter how it looks.

Title	What's it like to have sex with a really hot girl?
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