What was the most recent revelation or tweak you had to your game?

I_AM_JACKS_DICKHOLE · 2015-10-30T15:19:08+00:00

Never text someone harshly/angrily. Take a deep breath and let it go, you'll calm down later and you can talk to her about it with a cool head

johnnyfaceoff · 2015-10-30T14:55:22+00:00

The more secure i become in myself, the less attractive insecure women become. Also, a side effect of me becoming more secure is that a women's insecurities are starting to become blatantly obvious to me.

Murfdigidy · 2015-10-30T15:04:19+00:00

Never never never react negatively to anything a women says. Good bad indifferent. If a women shit tests you it's a good thing, it means her guard is up and she is worth fun shit testing back . I always keep a fun good attitude, if you project confident positivity girls will become comfortable with you and those shit tests will turn into love tests. Have fun, never never stop portraying you're having a great time. You'll attract more than you'll lose if u stick to this attitude

2015-10-30T16:35:36+00:00

The more I go out with the thought "I will approach today", the more outcome dependant I become.

I'm learning that good approaches cone from feeling good, having a good time and letting opportunities come to you, and making sure you don't pass them up.

I should be fishing, not hunting. Cast my line and see what happens, but fight like hell once I get a bite. Not chasing the prey.

2015-10-30T14:36:37+00:00

hesitate and die.

authenticsociallife · 2015-10-30T18:51:51+00:00

It's been a been a while since I had a big revelation.

One recently, I went to this spiritual center expecting to hear a good sermon, met a girl there, went somewhere afterwards. I forgot that sex can really happen at anytime.

One that sticks out is when I was talking to this woman and she was great until her friend showed up who was acting retarded. The original girl started being retarded too and I told them; "You girls are idiots" and walked away in the middle of the conversation. The original girl was shocked as she thought I was going to stick around to somehow try to win them both over. After that my game went WAY up as I wouldn't stay in interactions that didn't serve.

2015-10-30T19:24:41+00:00

Stone-cold-sober cold-approach is the best practice.

2015-10-30T15:10:52+00:00

Importance of kino.

Staghound_ · 2015-10-30T22:14:32+00:00

Been told it before but never really listened until now. Confidence confidence confidence. That is it, that is the only game plan you need. I just didn't give a fuck and started saying cheeky/dirty stuff to girls on tinder and what do you know, had better conversations with them than ever before.

Also realising I'm not that shy nerdy kid with long hair anymore. I'm that sexy 6ft guy with a good body (hey I worked for it) and a great sense of humour and girls want me. Fuck yeah

And lastly I'm going to a concert tomorrow and any eye contact, not even going to think about it, going straight over to say hi

Fudgeworth · 2015-10-30T22:50:05+00:00

One thought I had recently is that there have been girls I was attracted to while I've been out that were attracted to me too. Because I didn't initiate I never found out which ones though.

Captain_Zurich · 2015-10-31T01:25:46+00:00

Growing up I was always the chubby kid.. a few years back i dropped the weight but never really gained confidence as a result.

Recently i've just been putting myself out there and trying. I try to pep myself up by acknowledging that the chance of them responding well is better than nothing..

So far, everyone i've made a move on has reciprocated, its been pretty mind blowing. Who knew all i ever really needed to do was try.

2015-10-31T03:43:19+00:00

I stopped trying to get laid.

Much happier now. If it comes it comes, if it doesn't it doesn't.

Outcome independence. It's the key to a happy life folks.

roscopcoldchain · 2015-10-30T15:56:58+00:00

Try to pro long each interaction ( ex. Instadate) , and ABC ( always be closing) ,

Title	What was the most recent revelation or tweak you had to your game?
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Date	October 30, 2015 12:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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