Beta Chasers (Good Girls)

dregofsociety · 2014-05-08T22:30:09+00:00

Its not game if they can spot it.

machimus · 2014-05-08T19:08:37+00:00

Yes...I...do...

So what you're gonna do is, you're still going to run game, but it's not going to look like you're gaming a club ho. It's going to look a lot more like Beta Game. You can still throw alpha into the mix, just make sure it's nice and subdued. You want to be more like the lacrosse player from American Pie.

iKill_eu · 2014-05-08T14:31:45+00:00

Oh yeah. I know what you're talking about.

I think the problem is that your SMV isn't high enough that they feel like they have to work for you. These girls get validated so hard that unless you're something special, they don't care for you, they're not going to extend a finger.

Dreamtrain · 2014-05-08T20:08:38+00:00

I noticed in some cases, these are women who already know who they are and what they want so they want to secure a partner which in paper sounds like a BPer dream but the main reason is because they know, sometimes even unconsciously, that a beta will be easier to manipulate or do things the way they want them to be done and they won't have to put up with having to chase after a guy who's keeping frame and will not be able to manipulate or negotiate easily when there's conflicts of interest. I suspect they associate tingles from alpha with the fact that they will lose control and they don't want that, so they shun the alpha and perhaps their sexual desire along with it, so they tend to be prudish and don't know themselves sexually because they have blocked this.

These are just some cases so I can't say all beta chasers are like that, I need to meet more of their kind, i've only observed them in scenarios where they are already dating someone (giving me a perspective that "all the good girls are already taken" back in my BP days). I've only dated two, both waiting for marriage and one ended up being psycho and the other took religion too much into the relationship and I ended up losing interest.

prune-juice · 2014-05-08T21:46:28+00:00

I'd say that I'm one of these self-proclaimed "beta chasers" and /u/Dreamtrain is more or less correct in saying that we subconsciously know betas will be way more cooperative when long term conflicts come up. That's definitely a huge motivator.

A lot of beta chasers tend to also not be into drinking alcohol or drugs. It's in the same vein of knowing ourselves, keeping frame, and not wanting to lose control. Chasing alphas, and even being in an LTR with an alpha is a constant, stressful dread where you know you're two ultimatums away from losing the relationship. Some girls are naturally inclined to go for betas and have less drive for alpha bad boys. I think it's an evolutionary gain.

DevilishRogue · 2014-05-08T19:31:28+00:00

If validating them gets results, validate them. Just don't fall in love with them as they won't be satisfied over the longer-term with someone who validates them.

Title	Beta Chasers (Good Girls)
Author	SomeRandomBroseph
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	May 8, 2014 1:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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