Hello Gentleman,

I'm coming off a successful week and i've got some time on my hands after a heartbreaking 1-0 loss in my adult soccer league, so i figured i'd do my best to give you guys a good Report on one of the girls i picked up this week.

A lot of guys ask about picking up at the gym, or specific situations in general and truth is there is no step by step process. Women aren't computer programs that follow a process - thankfully, or the game would be boring as hell. Usually when i pick up girls at the gym i go direct, keep it short and just grab their number and try to be bold and memorable in the short time we are talking. However this girl works at the gym, and so i drew it out a bit. First things first:

EYE CONTACT

  • Your eyes can be so powerful if you use them properly. I hold eye contact with everyone until they break it first or we pass one another. I can sit in it all day and it does not bother me. I use my eyes to display my intent before i've ever said anything to a girl. What i'm trying to project with my eyes is "i know your secret" and "i could make you cum so hard" Friends of mine who are girls always say its intense and "don't look at me that way!" in a joking manner. So that's how i start with every girl. I would hold eye contact with her when i got water in between my sets, and she had sexy intense eyes as well and didn't break it.

I'm going to interrupt myself here for a nice little side note on eye contact. If a girl breaks eye contact by looking down, shes probably attracted to you. If she looks side to side or up it could mean shes taken or not interested. I read some psychological study saying looking down implies submission and attraction, and side to side was like them looking for other mates. Of course its not true 100 percent of the time, and i always assume attraction anyway, but that's a nice little nonverbal cue to look for, plus if you struggle with eye contact it gives you an incentive to hold it.

Anyway, back to the pickup, this is getting a bit long but stay with me i'm trying to be detailed to help. So i would see this girl from time to time and established a little rapport. From the eye contact naturally the next place to go was conversation. Her name tag was on so when i talked i would call her by her name, and asked if she always creepily watches gym goers get water. When i open i like to be kinda cocky funny but there's an underlying intensity that goes along with it, i find if you are too much of a joker girls don't take you serious. Imagine that. She'd retort that she was just "waiting to see if i was going to put more weight on the bar" and my reply was that "i don't even workout, i just like to walk around and check myself out in the mirror" Maybe some of you would view this as a shit test, i don't really think of things that way. If you're that in your own head during conversation you've got some stuff to work out with yourself first. This became a bit of a running joke and gave us ground for further conversation which lead to talking about alcohol and parties, I made a joke that i get in trouble a lot and she made one back that i need a good influence, at which point i whip out my phone and type her name in the contact, and then i just hand my phone to her. This is always how i go about getting a girls number, and it pretty much always works. I don't think i've ever gotten rejected for a number now that im thinking about it. She says "well that was quick" and then puts her number in my phone. I tell her i'll chat to her later and we go about our day.

First "Date"

I'm not a fan of coffee or dinner with a girl i'm trying to pick up. It's just boring to me, and i know if i feel bored i'll project boring, and of course that's the last thing you want to be to a girl you are seducing.

So i tell her that night i've got plans for us and that i'll pick her up, i tell her to dress warm and she gives me her address. I ALWAYS ALWAYS open car doors for girls. You can break the touch barrier this way by putting your hand on her lower back and guiding her into the car. I close the door and walk around and do a goofy little roll over the hood of my car usually just for a good laugh. One of my favorite things to do is look at the art in my School's art building, and this building also boasts a balcony which conveniently has the best view of my beautiful campus. We look at the art, talk about what we get out of it, what we see, this branches off to other stories and the conversation flows well. Another nice little kino move is to just stand a little bit too close and touch hands/arms legs. It seems incidental, but you both know its not. If she doesn't like it she can just move, if she does like it she will stay or move closer. So we move through the building and up onto the balcony where we sit and chat, she loves the view of campus and we get into some pretty deep topics, talking about our pasts and our passions. Where we've been and where we are going. BE INTERESTED IN HER. I'm not really one for all the PUA bullshit lines and negging and "try this one trick that'll bring you a harem of 10's" Just be present to the moment, be interested in her, project the way shes turning you on and she will reciprocate it. The whole time we are talking i'm moving closer, first our knees would be touching and then she put her feet up on the rail and i pulled her legs over mine. We went on talking like this for maybe an hour or so, and then i stood up, looked down at her, and just held out my hand without saying anything. She took it and stood up, and i spun her around, starting humming some terrible rhythm and slow dancing with her. It was funny because it was bad, But it got our whole bodies into full contact. Then i stopped, held both of her hands and just held eye contact with her, she kept it and looked at my lips (which is pretty much always a cue to kiss a girl) and then i kissed her. It got pretty hot and heavy, and usually by this point there's a bit of an elephant in the room about how the nights going to end and where it's going to go from there. As a man its your job to guide the interaction. At this point you just have to be bold and audacious. If having a line handy makes you comfortable in this situation mine is typically something simple like "lets get out of here" That's it.

So back to the car and i bring up earlier how she had said she wanted to learn to play chess, and that i was quite good. I offer her a "free lesson" at my place where i have a nice marble chess set.

We set up in my room, play a game (i won of course), and then as consolation i make out with her and lay her on my bed. Gentleman, if you're making out with a girl in your bed its pretty much a done deal if you are any good in bed.

So thats it, i felt like i was dragging on so i apologize if any areas seem to be lacking detail. I hope this helps or inspires someone and if you have any questions about anything, be it pickup "philosophy" or this FR in general i pretty much live and breathe it so feel free to send me a PM or comment.

Til Next time.