Girls Just Don't Ever Seem Interested In Me No Matter What I Do

StopShakingMyBabies · 2015-12-08T04:48:30+00:00

If everything you say is true try video recording yourself and speak into the camera as you would towards a girl you're trying to hook up with. It might reveal some less desirable qualties of the way you speak or sound. You can take it a step further and post it, but I can see how weird or unappealing that might sound. Good luck!

WayOfTheGentleman · 2015-12-08T07:01:23+00:00

I would have to actually speak to you to be able to determine this, but it sounds like you're focusing on techniques, rather than fixing what's underneath.

Do you feel like you are worthy of women? Do you feel like you deserve to have a great girl in your life? If not, all the great techniques in the world won't fix the 'I'm not good enough' stench that radiates out of you.

bigang99 · 2015-12-08T07:07:44+00:00

You say you've tried all these alter ego "shy confident" or "funny ass" approachs, why not be yourself? if you act fake people can tell

authenticsociallife · 2015-12-08T07:12:52+00:00

Film yourself and PM me the video and I'll be happy to take a look at what you're doing wrong. Are you asking too many questions? Too invested? Leaning too forward?

How do you dress?

Life_Uncivilized · 2015-12-08T13:37:06+00:00

It sounds like the problem is that you're trying too hard. Stop thinking about angles of approaching and all that bullshit - it's nonsense. Over complicating this stuff and bad results are not a coincidence.

Just have a normal conversation with them, and let your eyes and hands do all the pickup stuff. Compliment them if you feel like, tell a joke when you feel like it - but just talk to them.

There's no technique to this stuff you just talk to girls. The second you try to do 'angles of approaching' you're going to get weird reactions from girls - because you are being a weirdo.

Seriously, if you're at a party, just introduce yourself like you would to other guys, be friendly and let your eyes carry the subtext. If someone rejects you for saying 'Hi, what's your name?' then why would you want to win them over anyway?

Talk to everyone. Your sex life and your social life are intrinsically linked.

joshsway · 2015-12-08T21:12:39+00:00

You said: "hell even girls that i've already banged"

That means you are doing something right. What did you do to get those girls?

DonElDoug · 2015-12-09T07:37:25+00:00

I think you should write a detailed FR

DonElDoug · 2015-12-09T07:37:27+00:00

I think you should write a detailed FR

letsgetrandy · 2015-12-08T04:42:30+00:00

I've tried everything.

Right. Of course you have.

I go to the gym everyday so I have a nice body.

No. You don't. If you were in the gym every day you wouldn't be this insecure. Do you even lift?

even girls that i've already banged don't answer me anymore

Pretty good odds you're a creep. Maybe take some time to become more self-aware? Maybe work to understand why you're off-putting?

I dont know what Im doing wrong and its getting to the point where its making me depressed, frustrated, and generally just lonely.

I'm going to go out on a limb here, and guess that you're not actually paying any attention to women, or the fact that they are humans with brains of their own and opinions and shit... but rather you probably think they're objects for you to desire, conquer, and impregnate.

Have you considered actually just talking to a woman, without hoping to fuck her? Like maybe just learn to make her smile, laugh, enjoy herself?

Title	Girls Just Don't Ever Seem Interested In Me No Matter What I Do
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Date	December 8, 2015 2:39 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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